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Baby steps to mortgage freedom for beanielou.
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Sending hugs xxI get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)3
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It’s a crapola situation.The abuse I got last week has cemented my decision. Nothing I saw last night made me question that, it only reinforced it.I respect that DS is happy with said person & it is what it is.Such is life.I am a mature woman & enough is enough.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.7 -
Enough is enough. None of us whatever our age needs to stick around to be abused. So sorry that you are in this situation.
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Thank you 😊badmemory said:Enough is enough. None of us whatever our age needs to stick around to be abused. So sorry that you are in this situation.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.5 -
Badmemory is right - you stay long enough to be sure that that's what's going on and isn't going to change, then you have a final act of remembrance, and then you move on. Very sorry it's happening, though. And hopefully it will become easier to see DS on his own.2023: the year I get to buy a car5
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Sorry to hear this.
you do not deserve to be treated so badly.
stay strong, and this too will pass xx5 -
Karmacat said:Badmemory is right - you stay long enough to be sure that that's what's going on and isn't going to change, then you have a final act of remembrance, and then you move on. Very sorry it's happening, though. And hopefully it will become easier to see DS on his own.
Thank you xDebsnewbudget said:Sorry to hear this.
you do not deserve to be treated so badly.
stay strong, and this too will pass xxI am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.4 -
Oh beanie ☹️ Don’t know what to say. I can’t believe that anyone would feel the need to give you abuse 😡 Their problem not yours xI get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)4
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Yes, it is.Sun_Addict said:Oh beanie ☹️ Don’t know what to say. I can’t believe that anyone would feel the need to give you abuse 😡 Their problem not yours xTime for me to take myself out of the equation.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.4 -
So sorry to hear that. It's out of order, and well done for looking after yourself.
Hope you aren't too impacted by the rain."Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee4
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