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Need to get myself together: The beginning

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  • laurag89
    laurag89 Posts: 728 Forumite
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    Good luck monz,
    About time she knows what he is like! Although it's not nice she will be thankful in the long run and hopefully not waste anymore time on him.

    You are smashing the surveys :)
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  • Thank you for your advice, will give the survery sites a go. Hope all went ok last night for you x
  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    Hey

    So I've told her yesterday. It was getting to me so much so I did and sent her all messages I thot she shd see and her reply was "when was all this??" So I told her and she was like do you have any more evidence of this Orr? So I went I have more messages my friends have met him n staff no. Like what was I meant to do at time finger print him!?

    So I sent her what's all messages n she went right ok part of me really doesn't believe you. I went look I have no reason to lie it's up to you what you want to do. I felt I shd tell u as u shd know.

    N she went was this before Xmas? N I went before and after n the day before he went to Aberdeen for new year.

    I've not heard from her since.

    I fb stalked still says in a relationship n I never went out last night didn't feel in mood. I was told her was there face tripping him. Will find out next Saturday but if he comes near me I will say to him look I don't want to talk to you so we are best just ignoring each other from now on

    So there you go. Hope it makes sense :) xx
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  • laurag89
    laurag89 Posts: 728 Forumite
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    That's always a possibility that she may just not want to believe it at all, but that is completely up to her you can't do anymore than be honest like you have.

    You are 100% best out of there relationship, she will learn exactly what he is like eventually, because he will do it time and time again. Xxx
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  • Well done Monz for being brave :)

    Some girls just want to live in denial. It's sad as they just get continuously walked over :(

    Forget them both and move on :) Onward and upward!!

    October xx
  • She sounds awilling to be a dj groupy, some girls are bonkers, well done Monz x
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  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    I feel terrible but I'm not going to stop going there I go every week. I just going to ignore him I want nothing to do with him and don't want him near me.

    That girl has a kid so she shd need to think abt full picture than just herself.

    My friends are all like how much more evidence cd u give lol but meh done my part n thought to be better person n let her know x
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  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    Update on dj. He put on fb about me avoiding him last night and karma ...


    Karma is him bn caught out cheating, avoiding? I was out Friday for a friends birthday n can't afford two nights so see u next Saturday x
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  • laurag89
    laurag89 Posts: 728 Forumite
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    How mature of him...... Not :)

    Karma is coming for him, not you x
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  • abba1772
    abba1772 Posts: 7,746 Forumite
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    What a numpty ........sounds like he's done this many times before judging by the response of the girlfriend.

    If he can't keep it in his trousers the. Karma will most definitely catch up with him.......I hope it falls off :rotfl:
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