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Need to get myself together: The beginning

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  • Fri-Yayyyyyyyyy

    Dxxx
  • abba1772
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    Hope you have a lovely weekend xx
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  • Hey monz,

    Hope you had a good weekend.

    Dxxx
  • monz
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    Morning!!

    Payday Thursday and cannot come quick enough!!

    Hope all good :) xx
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  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    Having a nightmare of a day.

    My dad picked my son up from school and was told he was having a bad day etc, and we found out a bigger boy was hitting him. Well I went to school this morning and they are playing it down saying they know nothing and says they think he has special needs problems. They are going to look into this about the boy but says my boy basically is socially behind, as in gets upset if he doesnt get something right or someone takes his stuff and that. I dont believe it but just in midst of a breakdown hearing this. I cant even function in work crying. I dont know what to do

    2 days to paday x
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  • Aw monz, it must be so hard having to deal with all of this.

    Sending you a big virtual hug!

    Dxxx
  • abba1772
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    It sounds like he's a sensitive little boy nothing wrong with that xx
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  • Calling14
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    Aww Monz hugs.

    I got told that my daughter never listened had reading, writing problems. Which was rubbish, she always quiet, didn't talk much but happy to say they were completely wrong. Now a successful Quantity Surveyor just unfortunate to have a bad lazy teacher at the time.

    Be pushy go to the school, seek advice. They shouldn't say those things. They are no medical experts. Good luck, don't get upset and be forceful
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  • monz
    monz Posts: 4,129 Forumite
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    Thanks everyone.

    I had to get sent home I was ill and couldnt function yesterday just wanted my boy :(! My mum is writing them a letter and helping me sort it. There is nothing wrong with him, hes spoiled (my own fault!) and only child who is always with adults, maybe thats my fault I should have him round kids more. He has no problems in tkd, swimming or football - if he had problems he woudlnt be getting so far in tkd or in comps

    just so stressed and migraines kicking in, think its time i should maybe go to docs but scared they might say I am not strong enuogh watch my son and try take him away, crying all time when hes in bed.

    payday tomorrow x
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  • Aw monz, there is no way that is going to happen.

    If you need to go the Dr's go without the worry that anything like that is going to happen.

    I'm local if you need me.

    Dxxx
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