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  • RTC87
    RTC87 Posts: 58 Forumite
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    CLAPTON wrote: »
    the reality of life is that debt has become 'normal'
    it's normal to want a new car
    a nice holiday
    meals out


    etc
    nothing wrong with anything of those things of course, if one can 'afford' them


    sadly, today 'afford' means 'afford to borrow' and not 'afford' as in 'I have money saved in the bank'.


    it's not patronising but once it was accepted wisdom: today debt is normal


    all school children should be taught the simple basic rules : save first and then spend
    never have debt except a mortgage
    use credit cards by all means but always pay in full every month


    save a little of your salary every month
    stuff happens in live and not being in debt is a wonderful thing.




    good luck with the baby: hope all goes well

    Thank you.

    That is sound advice and something we will work to from now on. As I said previously we do intend to be debt free by Feb and by not having this loan will just build a life at a slower but safer pace.

    Once again thank you all for the advice, helped give us some perspective.
  • I know you've already made the right decision in not taking the loan, but I just thought I'd share that when we had our first born we had a 3-door MG Metro and we didn't struggle for space. Might not be as bad as you think :)


    Congrats and enjoy the little one when s/he arrives!
    LBM July 2006. Debt free 01 Sept 12 .. :T
    Finally joined Slimming World: weight loss 33lbs...target achieved 51wks later 06.05.13 & still there :j
    Aim to be mortgage free in 2022. Jan 17 33250 Nov 17 27066 Mar 18 24498 Sep 18 20608 Nov 18 19250 Jan 19 17980 Mar 19 16455 May 19 15024 Nov 19 10488 Feb 20 8150 May 20 5783 Aug 20. 3305 Nov 20 859 Mortgage free, 02.12.2020
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