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Four working days to go before early retirement! How did you feel at this stage?

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  • Hi, At 68 I resigned, the company still wanted me but the job was away from home for 3 months at a time and my wife was sick of it, I was thinking of the money as I had a bad time early 2000 and I lost a lot of money and had just got back to the point when I did not have to think how much things cost.
    At present I am still on leave and getting full pay plus pensions but that's ending soon so I keep worrying how I am going to survive a big drop in income, only pensions but I must admit I feel free, at this point in a normal leave I would be thinking of going back and counting the days to go but now I am just relaxing. I must admit I have looked at some job adverts but my work was quite specialised so not applicable to most.
    Just to see how well off I will be I have equated my pensions and my wifes small pension to hourly rate and it is about £12 per hour before tax so £480 a week and I know lots of people have to exist on much less than this but I still worry,
    I took my company pension at 61 and the full 25% cash, mainly because my uncle retired at 60, had a party and died on the sunday so never got to enjoy a penny of his pension and I thought not me but here I am at 68 still fit and well and regretting wasting the lump sum on unimportant things but reading the positive thoughts here I feel happier about the future
  • kidmugsy
    kidmugsy Posts: 12,709 Forumite
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    my wifes small pension
    …...
    I took my company pension at 61 and the full 25% ….regretting wasting the lump sum on unimportant things


    The second could have corrected the first.
    Free the dunston one next time too.
  • melanzana
    melanzana Posts: 3,953 Forumite
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    Hi, At 68 I resigned, the company still wanted me but the job was away from home for 3 months at a time and my wife was sick of it, I was thinking of the money as I had a bad time early 2000 and I lost a lot of money and had just got back to the point when I did not have to think how much things cost.
    At present I am still on leave and getting full pay plus pensions but that's ending soon so I keep worrying how I am going to survive a big drop in income, only pensions but I must admit I feel free, at this point in a normal leave I would be thinking of going back and counting the days to go but now I am just relaxing. I must admit I have looked at some job adverts but my work was quite specialised so not applicable to most.
    Just to see how well off I will be I have equated my pensions and my wifes small pension to hourly rate and it is about £12 per hour before tax so £480 a week and I know lots of people have to exist on much less than this but I still worry,
    I took my company pension at 61 and the full 25% cash, mainly because my uncle retired at 60, had a party and died on the sunday so never got to enjoy a penny of his pension and I thought not me but here I am at 68 still fit and well and regretting wasting the lump sum on unimportant things but reading the positive thoughts here I feel happier about the future

    Hi bill,
    I know it's late....but that's the joy of retirement. No set times for anything anymore, and I'm only a few weeks in!

    Loving it. Really. Staying up late, doing what I want. It's great.

    But I am not stupid. I know the initial rush of relief/relaxation will pass, and I will do something else in time. But for now, I am totally enjoying the feeling of getting my career out of my system. It's a good feeling. We all have to move forward!

    As for finances. I'm sure you will be fine. I haven't even thought about a one third or so drop in take home. Not for a minute. I will be fine.

    I retired early, so I am paying for the privilege!

    We spend too much when we have it. When we don't have it, we might just realise that a lot of our expenditure was on JUNK and unnecessary stuff. And TBH I am looking forward to living realistically, only getting what I need, not what I want anymore.

    Best wishes to you.
  • melanzana
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    I haven't taken retirement, if I retire at 55 I have 14 years left to go and that feels like a prison sentence as it is!. I absolutely hate my job, the management are idiots - I only stay there for the money and to build up my pension pot. Going to work is a major inconvenience in my daily life and I wish I could give it up tomorrow to concentrate on all my interests and hobbies. I can't imagine how I would ever be bored not working. I wish you luck, good health and happiness in your retirement. You lucky sod LOL!

    Hi MM.

    Thanks so much for your good wishes.

    I can only say that your day will come too.

    I am very fortunate I know. I will never deny that. But a lot of saving and frugality over the years has allowed me to do this now.

    Like you, boredom was never in my radar in retirement ever! I have so much to do. But I am taking it easy for now. Winter is the time to sort things out I think.

    So For once, indolence is bliss!
  • gallygirl
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    melanzana wrote: »
    indolence is bliss!

    Ooooh, what a great word :T.

    Indolence. My new career inspiration :D.
    A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort
    :) Mortgage Balance = £0 :)
    "Do what others won't early in life so you can do what others can't later in life"
  • melanzana
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    Evening all, I don't want to be smug, but what the heck!

    No work in the morning for me. It's a wonderful feeling. I have absolutely no regrets. It's all good.

    I have had one week (after hols) with no work schedule. No problem. At all.

    Met my sister for lunch, did the garden, walked with a friend on Thursday, followed by a glass of vino!

    Not one bit bored or worried. It's great.

    I know it's early days though.....but I am living in the moment.
  • Mossfarr
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    I took early retirement/redundancy five years ago aged 50.
    I have never regretted it for one moment, I've never been bored and i'm never short of things to fill my time.
    I was quite apprehensive about this unexpected retirement and worried that I would find it difficult to manage financially but honestly you adjust your lifestyle and manage just fine.
    I too felt a bit aggrieved that I was 'cast aside' so easily after long loyal service, but that soon passed and I no longer care a jot about my former employer or the majority of my former colleagues.
    The true friends I made in work are still my friends and we regularly meet up for long lunches or days out.
    I go to a gym every weekday morning and I am now much fitter and healthier than I ever was when I worked.
    My advice to you would be - write yourself a list of things that you want to do from travelling to growing your own veg. That helps if you start to feel you are not doing anything with your time.
    I always wanted to attend a property auction and now I go fairly often - not necessarily to buy anything, just because I find it really interesting!
    Good Luck to you
    Mossfarr
  • mollycat
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    I haven't taken retirement, if I retire at 55 I have 14 years left to go and that feels like a prison sentence as it is!. I absolutely hate my job, the management are idiots - I only stay there for the money and to build up my pension pot. Going to work is a major inconvenience in my daily life and I wish I could give it up tomorrow to concentrate on all my interests and hobbies. I can't imagine how I would ever be bored not working. I wish you luck, good health and happiness in your retirement. You lucky sod LOL!


    This^^^is exactly how I feel, couldn't have written it better myself.

    3 and a half years to go in the NHS; first thing to do is to try and forget that I ever DID work, and then just get on with the numerous activities work is keeping me from.:)

    Good luck to the OP, everyone who has retired well, those about to, and those not fortunate to go just yet.

    Life truly is too short!
  • kidmugsy
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    melanzana wrote: »
    I know it's early days though.....but I am living in the moment.

    Yes, and the football season about to begin too. Bet you can hardly wait.
    Free the dunston one next time too.
  • paparossco
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    mollycat wrote: »
    3 and a half years to go in the NHS

    They say the first 37 years are the worst so look on the bright side; only 40 pay slips to go for you and 35 for me:j
    The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don't know anything about.
    Wayne Dyer
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