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please help: ex coming off the mortgage
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GraJoh
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Hello all - I would really appreciate some guidance if possible?
7 years ago we bought a property for £185k with a mortgage of £168k. We split up a year later and I have been paying the mortgage ever since after she moved out.
finally, I have a mortgage agreed based on my income at 75% LTV on new valuation of £220k (as I have invested in a new bathroom, kitchen and garden). I have contacted the ex and asked if she is ok to sign a form within the legal documents to come off the mortgage and suddenly she wants £4000...!
As I can only get £165k on the agreed mortgage (75%) with fees etc I literally cannot raise this money and also contest giving her anything.
Is she within her rights to demand this?
If I am in the wrong, fair enough
thanks
7 years ago we bought a property for £185k with a mortgage of £168k. We split up a year later and I have been paying the mortgage ever since after she moved out.
finally, I have a mortgage agreed based on my income at 75% LTV on new valuation of £220k (as I have invested in a new bathroom, kitchen and garden). I have contacted the ex and asked if she is ok to sign a form within the legal documents to come off the mortgage and suddenly she wants £4000...!
As I can only get £165k on the agreed mortgage (75%) with fees etc I literally cannot raise this money and also contest giving her anything.
Is she within her rights to demand this?
If I am in the wrong, fair enough
thanks
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Did she put anything into the original deposit?0
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The only way to get her off the mortgage is by coming to an agreement or else either unmarried party can go to court ( lands tribunal ) and get the court to force the sale ( very expensive ) Your house has increased in value £35 k and whilst she hasnt paid - she was still at risk on a joint and several liability for the mortgage. For £4k ( i think well cheap ) - i'd find a way to snap her hand off - get rid and house is all then yoursStuck on the carousel in Disneyland's Fantasyland
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For £4k ( i think well cheap ) - i'd find a way to snap her hand off - get rid and house is all then yours
Should get: £0k
Give her: £4k
Now, where's that going to come from....? Maybe point out you've no money and agree to pay it in, say, 1-2 years' time as a lump sum, or to start paying £400/month in a year.....
Or, could you get a lodger for 1 year, just to get her paid off?0
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