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  • cjj_2
    cjj_2 Posts: 6,588 Forumite
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    Anyway nite nite elite, hopefully be in a better place again pretty soon. X

    Hope things look up for you and ds soon WH. Take care xx
    Cherish those you have in your life because you never know when they won't be there anymore.

    No matter how you feel, get up, dress up & never give up.
  • tazmac25
    tazmac25 Posts: 1,651 Forumite
    karlie88 wrote: »
    Has anyone been watching Secret Life of Students on Channel 4?

    Just caught up with 2 episodes today on 4oD.

    :rotfl:

    i watched the first one - omg what have i let myself in for - i start uni in september !!!!
    does it get any better or worse???
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  • Nannylala
    Nannylala Posts: 6,791 Forumite
    Anyway nite nite elite, hopefully be in a better place again pretty soon. X

    Sending you a Big Nannylala hug x
  • fairclaire
    fairclaire Posts: 22,698 Forumite
    edited 14 July 2014 at 6:25PM
    He cant get passed these online tests, he is very black and white in his thought process.

    He did 12 days work placement with M&S, he was given a glowing feedback report. Being autistic he takes things very literal, M&S said if they had a job he would have been given it, so when 5 vacancies arose he expected to be given one because of what was said before hand.

    Just having a sh*tty day as he has been rejected once again from Asda.

    When he is applying for jobs, make sure that you check if the company he is applying with has a guaranteed interview scheme. A lot of big companies have this and most, if not all, public sector employers have it as well. They will vary from place to place but I know a lot bypass the initial stages and the candidate can go straight to the interview stage. His autism would qualify him to use these schemes.
    My OH did have a job for a short time inbetween leaving the army and now and he used this scheme. Sadly he couldn't cope with the job, but he did get it.
    You might already know all this, but it's useful information for others if you do.

    I'm very sad to hear that he's having such problems finding work. The statistics for Austistic people out of work are quite shocking. A very sad state of affairs. I worry often for my sons future with regards to things like jobs etc, and we're a long way off that. I have everything crossed that he can find something soon.

    ETA securing a job using these schemes also offers an extra layer of protection should there be any problems during employment. Disciplinary matters, adjustments to working conditions, and that sort of thing. The employer is recognising the needs of a disabled person by offering them employment through these schemes, it means that they're more likely to cater a adequately for them as well.
  • karlie88
    karlie88 Posts: 9,114 Forumite
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    bexter7 wrote: »
    Is it any good Karlie?;)

    Pretty much my 1st year at uni.

    :rotfl:
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  • karlie88
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    silvercar wrote: »
    I watched it and was quite shocked. Is that what my baby gets upto at uni?

    :o
    tazmac25 wrote: »
    i watched the first one - omg what have i let myself in for - i start uni in september !!!!
    does it get any better or worse???

    :rotfl:
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  • karlie88
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    bubbsy malone was it you who said that your GP's first question for an ailment is 'how long have you had it?'

    :o
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  • tazmac25
    tazmac25 Posts: 1,651 Forumite
    karlie88 wrote: »
    :o



    :rotfl:

    karlie you are not filling me with confidence !!!! LOL
    now im really pleased not to be in halls and stopping at home - mature student !
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  • 76rosie
    76rosie Posts: 1,819 Forumite
    Anyway nite nite elite, hopefully be in a better place again pretty soon. X

    Hello witch hazel.

    Hope you feel better tomorrow.

    I know it all feels very personal right now. But I think it's more about the world at the moment. It seems like the working market is really tough right now.

    My oh is a dead end zero hour contract job with hardly any hours. He has applied for loads of jobs and never gets interviews.

    May be the work experience could turn into a job recognise your son s strengths.
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  • karlie88
    karlie88 Posts: 9,114 Forumite
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    tazmac25 wrote: »
    karlie you are not filling me with confidence !!!! LOL
    now im really pleased not to be in halls and stopping at home - mature student !

    Mature?

    Like a nice cheddar.

    :D

    There were quite a few mature medics on our course...came on the nights out at times.

    Boy can they party!

    :eek:

    :rotfl:
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