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Former housemate taking me to small claims court - help!

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  • Killick
    Killick Posts: 61 Forumite
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    edited 12 July 2014 at 9:38AM
    You could start by telling the boyfriend to F*** **f because it isn't any of his business and have him removed from the premises.
    If you do owe this person money and it seems like you do, why not do the right thing and sort it out properly.
    There is nothing as shabby as trying to use technicalities to avoid your responsibilies. I'm with Sourcrates on this, ask for a copy of the bill, pay your share and get proof of payment.
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  • catshark88
    catshark88 Posts: 1,099 Forumite
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    matttye wrote: »
    There's a way to deal with people and the way this person has dealt with the op is horrendous, given the op's money troubles.

    I'm sure the OP could better use the money towards paying less menacing creditors.

    You call it wriggling out of it, I call it comeuppance.

    This is an appalling attitude.

    The OP doesn't deny using the utility. Take responsibility, pay up and stop trying to weasel out of your debt. Why should the housemate who's name is on the bill suffer for you?
    "Have nothing in your houses that you do not know to be useful, or believe to be beautiful." William Morris
  • PlymouthMaid
    PlymouthMaid Posts: 1,550 Forumite
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    She is being heavy handed but you need to pay your share of the bill. I expect that she is just as much in need of her cash as you. Cheeky.
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    You're a slave to money then you die"
  • terryw
    terryw Posts: 4,396 Forumite
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    Is it just me, or is it not strange that the op has not been back?
    "If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
    Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools"
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  • 19lottie82
    19lottie82 Posts: 6,032 Forumite
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    terryw wrote: »
    Is it just me, or is it not strange that the op has not been back?

    Nah, not really! ;-)

    There are two issues here. The moral one and the legal one.

    Morally the OP used the electricity so should pay the bill. Legally, I can't see the FM enforcing this, even through the courts, as the bill is in her name only.
  • Slowmotion wrote: »
    I get a message from her boyfriend saying to pay her immediately or he'll take me to court.

    He's talking spherical objects.

    HE can't take you to court, because HE isn't owed the money.
    but I'm hoping if it gets to court and I've got proof of paying her weekly it should be enough to avoid a ruling against me and therefore having to pay fees etc.

    The court isn't in a position to judge your goodwill.

    They're there to judge if you do, or do not, owe the plaintiff.

    If you do, and haven't paid it off, by the time you appear in court, the court will award a judgement against you, to the value of whatever you still owe, plus costs.

    Once a judgement has been made, you have one month to pay it off, before it will be recorded on your file, where it will remain for 6 years.

    I'd recommend you beg/borrow/earn the amount needed, ASAP, and pay it off, before a summons (involving a fee of £25 or £35 - which is added to what you owe) is issued against you.
  • satchmo1 wrote: »
    It'll save the person the court fees which are a high percentage of the amount OP owes.

    Court fees are added to the debt.
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