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Non White/Ivory Wedding Dress

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Hello

Just wondered if anyone is planning on a wedding dress that isn't white or ivory? Or if you got married in a dress that wasn't white or ivory? We're getting married next year and I've seen a lovely dress in a grape colour but I don't like it in ivory. Would just be interested in other peoples thoughts? Or do you have any photos if you went for a different colour?
"Nobody made a greater mistake than he who did nothing because he could only do a little." Edmund Burke
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  • My sister tried on a couple of coloured dresses and very nearly went for a coffee-coloured dress, which looked absolutely lovely on her.


    I personally think you should go for it - it's your wedding, you should wear a dress you like and stuff what colour it is!
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  • Mrs_Soup
    Mrs_Soup Posts: 1,154 Forumite
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    I had a dress that had an ivory skirt and dark red bodice worn with a full length red coat over the top (got married in December). I found all the white/ivory dresses very same-y. Show us a pic of the grape one.
  • bellakitten
    bellakitten Posts: 11 Forumite
    For some reason I really love red dresses that really rich in colour. I found a lovely one online, I'll have t try and find it.
  • Faith177
    Faith177 Posts: 2,927 Forumite
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    This was my wedding dress http://www.joyceyoungcollections.co.uk/collections/tartan-weddings/heritige/

    I had so many complements on how different it was but still a little bit traditional.

    I think coloured dress hope you to show your taste and indiviuality I am so glad I went with mine now
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  • Evil_Olive
    Evil_Olive Posts: 322 Forumite
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    edited 30 June 2014 at 5:52PM
    I didn't want a white/ivory dress either - I'm making mine of a two tone silk taffeta in a pale spring green shot with pearl grey. It's also embroidered and beaded in spring green. It's got a beaded copper net underskirt & train to match the copper belt and jewellery I'll be wearing. At first my mum & sisters said "Oh No!, it won't look like a wedding dress" etc etc etc, but now it's almost finished, they think it's lovely.

    As long as it suits you, flatters you and feels more 'special' than anything you'd usually wear then that counts as a bona fide wedding dress in my opinion - whatever colour it is.

    White has only been common for brides since Victorian times anyway, before that, a bride just wore a fancier version of her usual clothes - white was usually for mourning clothes! Also, at various times in Britain's history, the traditional colour for brides has changed between, yellow, green, red, blue and probably others as well. In the Middle Ages the 'traditional' colours were crimson, purple & royal blue - so your grape dress is traditional too :)
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  • tigzem
    tigzem Posts: 2,361 Forumite
    I can't work out how to post a photo! I'll later from a laptop.
    "Nobody made a greater mistake than he who did nothing because he could only do a little." Edmund Burke
  • I am going to buy a champagne wedding gown.....
  • ellay864
    ellay864 Posts: 3,827 Forumite
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    photo.php?fbid=2433711958634&set=a.2433709958584.2133771.1126725358&type=3&theaterI originally wanted to wear purple; in the end my dress was silver with my BM in purple. I had purple shoes though :)

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  • Evil_Olive
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    That is a delicious fabric elly864 - and a very elegant cut on the dress - lovely :)
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  • heartbreak_star
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    Ellay you look beautiful :)

    HBS x
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