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Loan Advice

nkzk2
nkzk2 Posts: 2 Newbie
Apologies if I've not posted this is the right place.....
I am looking for a bit of advice regarding loans for a friend...
I don't know the full in's and out's but he took an unsecured loan out for his son (who was unable to get one on his own-credit rating i think), the loan was over a 5 year period and he has been paying my friend each month, but for the past three months he has been unable to make the payments and it has been my friend whose done so. He's now said that he is unable to make any further payments....as this loan is in my friends name and not his sons, could his son be held in anyway responsible for its repayment?...or would it solely be my friend? ....he can evidence it was paid to his son, bank transfer of original loan amount to him and also the payments he's made to my friend each month up until a few months ago?...any advice would be appreciated. Thanks

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  • dealer_wins
    dealer_wins Posts: 7,334 Forumite
    nkzk2 wrote: »
    Apologies if I've not posted this is the right place.....
    I am looking for a bit of advice regarding loans for a friend...
    I don't know the full in's and out's but he took an unsecured loan out for his son (who was unable to get one on his own-credit rating i think), the loan was over a 5 year period and he has been paying my friend each month, but for the past three months he has been unable to make the payments and it has been my friend whose done so. He's now said that he is unable to make any further payments....as this loan is in my friends name and not his sons, could his son be held in anyway responsible for its repayment?...or would it solely be my friend? ....he can evidence it was paid to his son, bank transfer of original loan amount to him and also the payments he's made to my friend each month up until a few months ago?...any advice would be appreciated. Thanks

    Your friend took the loan out, he is 100% responsible and liable for the debt.

    Whether he spent the money on a spin of a roulette wheel, threw it out of the window, or lent it to his son makes no difference.

    He can take his son to court for the money he lent his son, but that has nothing to do with the loan he took out in his name.
  • nkzk2
    nkzk2 Posts: 2 Newbie
    Hi, thank you for your response, we hadn't thought about the court option...my friend doesn't have anything in writing from his son stating that he would repay any money, do you think court would still be an option?, my friend bank transferred the money to his son originally and since then his son has been paying him each month but other than that there's no legal agreement between them?.. thanks
  • Gaz83
    Gaz83 Posts: 4,047 Forumite
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    nkzk2 wrote: »
    Hi, thank you for your response, we hadn't thought about the court option...my friend doesn't have anything in writing from his son stating that he would repay any money, do you think court would still be an option?, my friend bank transferred the money to his son originally and since then his son has been paying him each month but other than that there's no legal agreement between them?.. thanks
    Oft-repeated advice on here is never to lend to friends or family. If it goes wrong it can ruin a relationship.

    He could try taking him to court and leave it to the balance of probability to decide whether it was judged to be a gift or a loan. The fact that there has been regular payments might go some way to proving it was a loan and not a gift.

    However, even if it's determined that it was a loan, the court can't force someone to pay what they don't have. If he doesn't have any money, then it doesn't matter if your friend wins his case - he's not going to get reimbursed.

    It might be better to chalk this one down to experience.
    "Facism arrives as your friend. It will restore your honour, make you feel proud, protect your house, give you a job, clean up the neighbourhood, remind you of how great you once were, clear out the venal and the corrupt, remove anything you feel is unlike you... [it] doesn't walk in saying, "our programme means militias, mass imprisonments, transportations, war and persecution."
  • bargainbetty
    bargainbetty Posts: 3,455 Forumite
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    Is there a reason why the son is unable to make further payments? If he has lost his job, or had increased expenditure, your friend needs to explain to his son that he needs to pay as much as he can towards the monthly payments, and will have to continue paying until he has cleared the debt and costs in full.

    If he will not repay his father what he owes him, your friend needs to make it very clear to other family members what the son is doing, and not to lend him any money in future.
    Some days, it's just not worth chewing through the leather straps....
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