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lost my house and in debt

I split from my husband 6 years ago and came out of our 30 year marriage with very little money. I managed to buy a little house but with a hefty mortgage, but then had to sell it a year ago as I lost my job and had to take something for a lot less money. I have been left with 15k worth of debt. I now rent a room in a house with a work colleague. I am with what was the CCCS and am making regular payments but this will still take me 8 years to pay off (basically when I retire), I am so scared that I have nothing to fall back on...the future looks so bleak...is or has anyone been in a similar situation? As I was a stay at home mum my pension will be very small so I don't have the prospect of a lump sum or anything to help ...any advice appreciated...

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  • themull1
    themull1 Posts: 4,299 Forumite
    Are you divorced? could you claim off your husbands pension?
  • dancingfairy
    dancingfairy Posts: 9,069 Forumite
    I would have a chat with CCCS(now called Stepchange) but it looks like your options are:
    1) a DRO (mini-bankruptcy) if you can get the debt below 15k
    2) bankruptcy
    3) making full and final settlement offers.
    4) carrying on with the dmp.
    (These are not listed in any particular order).
    df
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  • eyeopener2
    eyeopener2 Posts: 1,783 Forumite
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    Wouldn't bankruptcy be the best idea? You then have a clean slate and can look forward instead of worrying all the time. Your clearly miserable so why not look at all options.

    Why not ask a few questions on the bankruptcy board to see what they say and what life is like post bankruptcy.

    It's worth exploring anyway.
    I'm Debt Free :j 2/09/2013
    Debt at LBM 30/04/2010 £24,109.38,
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 32,541 Ambassador
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    edited 21 June 2014 at 4:37PM
    Seriously consider going bankrupt, you don't own a property, and you have no assets, although saying that you need to find court fees of £180.00, and £525.00 for the official receiver, if you can find the money, you could be discharged within 12 months, and be able to start with a clean slate, although you may have to pay into it for up to 3 years if you have any surplus income.


    Get some advice from either stepchange or National debt line.


    Infact, I wish I had done, instead of enduring an IVA for 6 years and skinting myself, ah well, hindsight is a wonderful thing.
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  • longtermplanner
    longtermplanner Posts: 1,442 Forumite
    I agree with sourcrates. Your sensible chopices are a DRO if your debt is under 15,000 or bankruptcy. Better to take this hard decision now than endure this long DMP.
  • Depth_Charge
    Depth_Charge Posts: 970 Forumite
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    edited 22 June 2014 at 1:08PM
    I split from my husband 6 years ago and came out of our 30 year marriage with very little money. I managed to buy a little house but with a hefty mortgage, but then had to sell it a year ago as I lost my job and had to take something for a lot less money. I have been left with 15k worth of debt. I now rent a room in a house with a work colleague. I am with what was the CCCS and am making regular payments but this will still take me 8 years to pay off (basically when I retire), I am so scared that I have nothing to fall back on...the future looks so bleak...is or has anyone been in a similar situation? As I was a stay at home mum my pension will be very small so I don't have the prospect of a lump sum or anything to help ...any advice appreciated...

    Hi

    From the figures you have put it would appear that you are paying around £155 per month (if I am reading things right)

    Expenditure allowance figures can vary greatly depending who you contact for advice - the CFS is accepted where Debt Relief Orders are concerned.

    As others have said you may well have other options

    Have CCCS (Stepchange) fully advised you on all your possible options & solutions?

    Could you put up your (SOA) Statement of Affairs as it stands now?

    You could try your local CAB (if you have one)

    Citizens Advice Debt Advice / Info / Remedy tool link below that might help

    https://nedcab.cabmoney.org.uk/debtremedy.asp

    https://nedcab.cabmoney.org.uk/index.asp

    Best Wishes

    DC
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