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Vodafone dispute -Debt and mental health

Hi I am new to this site and just wondered if anyone can help me. My son has been in dispute with Vodafone for the last 3 months and after numerous phone calls each time talking to someone different and several letters we are getting nowhere. My son suffers from mental health. He had a contract with Vodafone averaging £50 a month. Then in March he got a bill for £1600 mainly due to gambling and purchasing sites. On mentioning this to his care worker she said it sounded like mania. On further investigation both by myself and his psychiatrist we found that a side affect of medication he had recently been put on is that it reduces peoples ability to control their impulses and causes excessive gambling and shopping. My sons psychiatrist wrote a letter to Vodafone and included documentation to prove this. She also said it is affecting my sons mental health but they don't want to know and insist my son pays this and also the rest of his contract which amounts to £2000. My argument is that yes my son ran up this bill, he also offered to pay them back £30 a week but they insisted on £80 a week which is not feasible. Also why, if this was unusual activity on my sons account, did Vodafone not put a cap on it. Also we have proof that this is down to medication then why will Vodafone take no notice of it. I have written to the financial ombudsman but not received a reply yet. I asked Vodafone to put a hold on the account until we get a reply but they have now referred it to a debt collection agency.My son is self harming due to this and I am so scared that all this worry will cause him to harm himself even more. Please can someone help me.

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  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 32,622 Ambassador
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    scaredmum wrote: »
    Hi I am new to this site and just wondered if anyone can help me. My son has been in dispute with Vodafone for the last 3 months and after numerous phone calls each time talking to someone different and several letters we are getting nowhere. My son suffers from mental health. He had a contract with Vodafone averaging £50 a month. Then in March he got a bill for £1600 mainly due to gambling and purchasing sites. On mentioning this to his care worker she said it sounded like mania. On further investigation both by myself and his psychiatrist we found that a side affect of medication he had recently been put on is that it reduces peoples ability to control their impulses and causes excessive gambling and shopping. My sons psychiatrist wrote a letter to Vodafone and included documentation to prove this. She also said it is affecting my sons mental health but they don't want to know and insist my son pays this and also the rest of his contract which amounts to £2000. My argument is that yes my son ran up this bill, he also offered to pay them back £30 a week but they insisted on £80 a week which is not feasible. Also why, if this was unusual activity on my sons account, did Vodafone not put a cap on it. Also we have proof that this is down to medication then why will Vodafone take no notice of it. I have written to the financial ombudsman but not received a reply yet. I asked Vodafone to put a hold on the account until we get a reply but they have now referred it to a debt collection agency.My son is self harming due to this and I am so scared that all this worry will cause him to harm himself even more. Please can someone help me.



    Hi,


    Unsure if the financial ombudsman remit covers mobile phone disputes, I believe they have there own regulator, there's some helpful info here for you :


    http://www.which.co.uk/consumer-rights/action/how-to-complain-to-the-ombudsman-about-a-mobile-phone-provider
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  • scaredmum
    scaredmum Posts: 11 Forumite
    Thanks for your reply. I made a mistake. It was the ombudsman that covers mobile phone companies and not the financial ombudsman I wrote to. Have spoken to the debt collection agency today and they have agreed to put a hold on the account until we get a reply.
  • sourcrates
    sourcrates Posts: 32,622 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts I've been Money Tipped! Name Dropper
    scaredmum wrote: »
    Thanks for your reply. I made a mistake. It was the ombudsman that covers mobile phone companies and not the financial ombudsman I wrote to. Have spoken to the debt collection agency today and they have agreed to put a hold on the account until we get a reply.



    Ah right, I see, hopefully you will have a positive outcome.:)
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free wannabe, Credit file and ratings, and Bankruptcy and living with it boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.For free non-judgemental debt advice, contact either Stepchange, National Debtline, or CitizensAdviceBureaux.Link to SOA Calculator- https://www.stoozing.com/soa.php The "provit letter" is here-https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2607247/letter-when-you-know-nothing-about-about-the-debt-aka-prove-it-letter
  • scaredmum
    scaredmum Posts: 11 Forumite
    Thank you.
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