We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

help & advice please?

hi. my wife and split up a few years back & she wants to come the mortgage. I went down to the provider(nationwide)and have a telephone appointment in 2 weeks. I will then be credit scored to see if I can afford the mortgage.if all goes well then I'm to have another meeting in person in branch. I've been paying the mortgage on my own for 3 years now & have never missed a payment.if they deem me unable to do so or I fail the credit score what could happen?
there is a light that never goes out

Comments

  • roymoz
    roymoz Posts: 21 Forumite
    ok. so I had a telephone interview a week before schedule! they went through a few questions as part of an affordability test. I failed this test :( I then got in touch with my ex & told her whats happened & she's chosen to stay on the mortgage. saved me a lot of hassle me thinks. I rang nationwide back & explained the situation & they were fine. I can't believe I failed. I've been paying the mortgage alone for over 3 yrs.
    there is a light that never goes out
  • Annisele
    Annisele Posts: 4,835 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Nationwide doesn't just care about whether you can afford the mortgage now , when interest rates are exceptionally low. They also care about whether you could afford the mortgage if interest rates rose another 4% or 5% or so (I'm not exactly sure what figure they use for stress testing). It's possible that that's the problem.

    Are you and your ex still married? If so, you might want to consider sorting out a divorce and splitting your finances properly; as things stand either of you could (try to) claim half of the other's assets while you remain married.
  • roymoz
    roymoz Posts: 21 Forumite
    yes, were still married but have been separated since june 11'. she doesn't want anything moneywise as she left me with all our debts, which were in my name. when I spoke with nationwide I thought it was because of these debts I'd been knocked back. this time next year those debts will of halved & I'm looking into overpaying what I can on the mortgage before the ex would like me to take her off(or try to)again. somewhere in the next 15-18 months.
    there is a light that never goes out
  • Thrugelmir
    Thrugelmir Posts: 89,546 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Deal with your debts before overpaying the mortgage.
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 354K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.3K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455.2K Spending & Discounts
  • 247K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 603.6K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.3K Life & Family
  • 261.1K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.