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My sons debts- Could I be liable? Very worried please help

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  • Lensman_2
    Lensman_2 Posts: 1,506 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hi ConcernedParent,

    Thanks for making me aware of your concerns.

    For further help with this, email me with your details via the link in our profile here?

    All you need to do is copy and paste the link into your web browser and it'll take you to the Contact us form on our website. To make sure it reaches me, quote the code WRT135 - MSE in the subject line.

    Once sent, you'll receive an automated reply with a reference number. Post back with this and I’ll check I've received it.

    Kind regards,

    Lee

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    Vodafone UK
    Sorry Lee but the OP is 68 and this is their first forum post. Cutting and pasting from a link, then playing reference number tennis may well be beyond their ability, let alone comfort zone.

    I think you can, and should, do better for someone who is over 65 and therefore officially vulnerable.

    I suggest a direct http link in a post and/or an offer to deal with it directly by forum message is appropriate in this case. (But I understand that you cannot offer this to all).
  • -taff
    -taff Posts: 15,417 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    They haven't been back since they posted last, so don't get your hopes up.
    Non me fac calcitrare tuum culi
  • Lensman_2
    Lensman_2 Posts: 1,506 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    -taff wrote: »
    They haven't been back since they posted last, so don't get your hopes up.
    I know.

    But we have 3 chances.

    1. They may have posted and run, never to read this thread again.

    2. They have posted once and read the comments, but have not had the courage to post back.

    3. They are busy. They will be back in the next week or so.

    If it is chance 2 or 3 our posts have not been in vain. Even if it is 1 then someone else with similar circumstances might land here from a google search and get some good advice.

    So I don't think our time has been wasted.
  • Vodafone
    Vodafone Posts: 4,297 Organisation Representative
    edited 28 May 2014 at 12:36PM
    Hi Lensman,

    I'm afraid we're unable to handle queries via private message, as this option isn't available to company representatives.

    We're also unable to provide links to pages independent of MSE due to the posting guidelines which we're required to follow.

    The contact details we post have been approved by MSE so customers can contact us privately and securely for help with their queries.

    Hopefully the OP with return to the thread soon.

    Thanks,

    Lee

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    Vodafone UK
    Official Company Representative
    I am the official company representative of Vodafone. MSE has given permission for me to post in response to queries about the company, so that I can help solve issues. You can see my name on the companies with permission to post list. I am not allowed to tout for business at all. If you believe I am please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com This does NOT imply any form of approval of my company or its products by MSE"
  • Out,_Vile_Jelly
    Out,_Vile_Jelly Posts: 4,842 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    Baz- it must be very distressing to have to acknowledge how badly your son is behaving. It may seem very harsh to take drastic measures such as changing the locks etc, however this may be the wake up call required to improve his attitude. Otherwise nothing will change and he will get further into trouble; officially (with a trashed credit rating) or unofficially (visits from scary types with baseball bats if he's hanging out with the wrong people). Ultimately you are helping him out with this tough love. All the best.
    They are an EYESORES!!!!
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