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Advice please

goolip
goolip Posts: 12 Forumite
Hi,

I am looking to get a joint loan with my bf, we do not live together and he is not on the electoral roll at his home address. I have a feeling this may be a problem because of credit checks etc, I have a good credit rating but he has not had a loan or anything other than a contract mobile phone, he just pays up front for things and has never had to have a mortgage.

Any idea of the best way of finding out if we are likely to be accepted for a loan at reasonable rates from a normal lender without it adversely affecting my credit rating.

Many thanks for your help,

Lizzie
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  • 19lottie82
    19lottie82 Posts: 6,033 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    it doesn't sound like your BF will have much luck tbh. lenders look for people with good credit histories, and who are on an electoral role.

    whats the loan for? do you understand the implications of a joint loan, if your BF and you split, and he decides not to pay "his half"?
  • dealer_wins
    dealer_wins Posts: 7,334 Forumite
    Lizzie, I have a feeling your BF is buttering you up for a joint loan is to stitch you up!

    Let me guess, the funds are for his debts or his new car etc?

    If he leaves you in the brown stuff, that joint loan will fall to you to repay in full as he will just walk away and as his credit record is already trashed the lender will expect you to pay the whole loan.

    When you sign a joint loan agreement, you are in effect signing a loan agreement that is just in your name (Google joint and several liability).

    Dont do it unless I have totally got the wrong end of the stick and you are happy to repay the loan by yourself should the worst happen!!
  • Foxy-Stoat_3
    Foxy-Stoat_3 Posts: 2,980 Forumite
    May as well take out the loan yourself so you won't be financially linked making your credit history trash also.

    Better yet, dont do it and let him find his own debt.
    "Dream World" by The B Sharps....describes a lot of the posts in the Loans and Mortgage sections !!!
  • TadleyBaggie
    TadleyBaggie Posts: 6,978 Forumite
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    I'd think twice. You've already had an ex scarper leaving you debts. You were also thinking of becoming a guarantor for a friend's loan.

    This previous thread speaks volumes: https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4924524=
  • SeanG79
    SeanG79 Posts: 977 Forumite
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    I would avoid the joint loan, you will be financially linked thereafter and it may prevent you from obtaining future credit...
  • goolip
    goolip Posts: 12 Forumite
    edited 22 May 2014 at 8:26AM
    This is very true, I just dont like to see people close to me struggle. The payments would be coming out of his bank account, not mine but I will definitely think a bit more about it, rather than just helping as it is a huge commitment if it all went pearshaped and no, I would not be able to afford the payments myself. I will see if I can find something that he can do on his own, although this may be difficult for him, there must be some way.

    Thank you for your advice.

    Lizzie
  • Foxy-Stoat_3
    Foxy-Stoat_3 Posts: 2,980 Forumite
    I'd think twice. You've already had an ex scarper leaving you debts. You were also thinking of becoming a guarantor for a friend's loan.

    This previous thread speaks volumes: https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4924524=

    I think its the same friend....OP didn't get the answer they were looking for hence the second thread.

    Advice is still the same though.

    As in the other thread, if your insisting on helping your friend out then take a loan in your name only and give them the cash, assuming you can afford to replay it every month whether he pays you or not. If they pay it back to you in full then happy days...if not then at least his credit history isn't linked and effecting yours.

    Good luck which way you go.
    "Dream World" by The B Sharps....describes a lot of the posts in the Loans and Mortgage sections !!!
  • SeanG79
    SeanG79 Posts: 977 Forumite
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    goolip wrote: »
    This is very true, I just dont like to see people close to me struggle. The payments would be coming out of his bank account, not mine but I will definitely think a bit more about it, rather than just helping as it is a huge commitment if it all went pearshaped.

    Thank you for your advice.

    Lizzie

    The problem is when he can't or won't make the payments...it will fall solely on your shoulders.

    Sometimes we have to struggle in order to learn...
  • Foxy-Stoat_3
    Foxy-Stoat_3 Posts: 2,980 Forumite
    goolip wrote: »
    This is very true, I just dont like to see people close to me struggle. The payments would be coming out of his bank account, not mine but I will definitely think a bit more about it, rather than just helping as it is a huge commitment if it all went pearshaped.

    Thank you for your advice.

    Lizzie

    Doesn't matter who's bank account they are coming from at first, you will have to give the lender your bank details and if they miss a payment then they debt your account.

    Its hard but everyone struggles, sometimes the best help is no help.
    "Dream World" by The B Sharps....describes a lot of the posts in the Loans and Mortgage sections !!!
  • Pixie5740
    Pixie5740 Posts: 14,515 Forumite
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    Why can't the BF get a loan in his name?

    I'd only consider getting a joint loan with someone if A) I was living with them as one household and B) the loan was to purchase something for both of us.
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