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Question about bailiffs, debts and etc.

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  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,128 Forumite
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    How is is going Twisted

    Any luck with DB?
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • Hi RAS,

    Well it sounds like he is just digging a hole for himself, he has not even bothered to be down the dole office this week and has resorted to stealing from our sister.

    To be honest, I do not think anything but Bankruptcy and seeing all his possesions removed will sort him out.
    Signaller, author, father, carer.
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,128 Forumite
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    I am really sorry that things are so bad. I suppose that all you can do is support mum and sister if they want him out of the house.

    Are you sure there is no issue with substance misuse? It is at the root of a lot of thiefing.

    If he will not go to the docs, could you advise them that you are concernd about his mental health (if you are?)

    (HUGS)
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • rog2
    rog2 Posts: 11,650 Forumite
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    Hi RAS,

    Well it sounds like he is just digging a hole for himself, he has not even bothered to be down the dole office this week and has resorted to stealing from our sister.

    To be honest, I do not think anything but Bankruptcy and seeing all his possesions removed will sort him out.

    If that's the case, then I don't even think that bankruptcy will change him. I am sorry for you, and the rest of your family.
    I am NOT, nor do I profess to be, a Qualified Debt Adviser. I have made MANY mistakes and have OFTEN been the unwitting victim of the the shamefull tactics of the Financial Industry.
    If any of my experiences, or the knowledge that I have gained from those experiences, can help anyone who finds themselves in similar circumstances, then my experiences have not been in vain.

    HMRC Bankruptcy Statistic - 26th October 2006 - 23rd April 2007 BCSC Member No. 7

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