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Fresh start... New DFW!

Today was a fresh start for me, it was the first day in a long time that I haven't stressed about the amount of debt that I have stupidly amassed.

Firstly I've set up a new bank account and have contacted Stepchange to arrange a DMP, so even though I know it's going to be a hard slog, I am confident that I will pay back the money that I owe. My OH has been really supportive which is great, I was worried about telling him the amount of debt I have but he has taken it in his stride and is going to help me anyway he can.

I have been browsing this forum for sometime and it's such a comfort to know that I am not alone in this and reading other peoples journeys and success stories is a real motivation, so thank you for sharing! :)

LMM
LBM: 20th April 2014
DMP: TBC
Total Debt: £30k

Comments

  • Shelbi
    Shelbi Posts: 744 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    :hello:Hi LMM

    Congrats on the new start...ill be subscribing & watching you demolish that debt! you can do it girl...best of luck! :D
    DFD-01.03.2018:starmod: :beer::T
    Maternity Savings- £2000/£10,000
    Emergency Fund- £1,000/£5,000
    House Deposit- £0/£25,000.
    NSD November 2/30
    Make £5 per day- £128.48/£155
  • giblet1979
    giblet1979 Posts: 864 Forumite
    Eighth Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Good luck LMM and welcome :) x
    Debt remaining: :(
    Mortgage - £117,759 (£134,600, Nov 2013)

    Work overpayment and home improvement loan paid back (£19200) :beer:


  • Would just like to wish you good luck on your journey
    There is always light at the end of the tunnel

    I've got a long journey to reach it

    But I will one day with a little help
  • savingmummy
    savingmummy Posts: 2,915 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Welcome!

    You sound very positive, keep that attitude going it will do you the world of good.
    I find when I sink to a low I have no energy to care :(

    I love the fact your OH is being fab!! That helps no end.

    Good luck x
    DebtFree FEB 2010!
    Slight blip in 2013 - Debtfree Aug 2014 :j

    Savings £132/£1000.
  • National_Debtline
    National_Debtline Posts: 7,998 Organisation Representative
    Tenth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Best of luck!

    - David @ National Debtline
    We work as money advisers for National Debtline and have specific permission from MSE to post to try to help those in debt. Read more information on National Debtline in MSE's Debt Problems: What to do and where to get help guide. If you find you're struggling with debt and need further help try our online advice tool My Money Steps
  • Thank you for your replies!

    I will certainly be more vocal on this forum from now on to share in the trials and tribulations of being a DFW :grin:
    LBM: 20th April 2014
    DMP: TBC
    Total Debt: £30k
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