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queen_of_cheap wrote: »That sets alarm bells ringing. That'd have me running in the opposite direction
Weird how I quoted your post and it came back with mine!!!
She keeps saying that she's looking out for her son, she dosen't want him 'damaged' by all this. This is a 'kid' who's 6' 8" 25+ stone and is now 18 yrs old. She's too much of a mother'er (is that a word>) she mothers him too much. Can't seem to get through to to her that he's not a kid anymore! As for her family. (mum&dad) They never ever have to find out if we're seeing each other!!
I honestly don't know what to do, Do I try and sort this out or do I walk away and try and start again.0 -
scamps1966 wrote: »Left me a bit befuddled to be honest! Talked about finances, money's gone as she had to buy for new house and pay debts apparently! Not worried about that though. She's going to pay phone bill.
The odd thing is, she wants me to give up my house to get one closer to her so I can be some sort of secret lover so her family won't know about us. !!!!!!. I can't work it out!
I don't usually offer my opinion so feel free to ignore but it sounds like your wife wants her cake (you) and to eat it (her families money) would you be happy with not going out together and hiding in the shadows also could you go through all you have done when someone in her family find out only you know if she is worth it hope that makes sense0 -
ilovetoshop wrote: »Ooh I didn't think about a pp, I have no idea, would be good if it did. My oh will be home in a bit I will pop to tesco and try
Would be maxed out with a couple of bags I think
I was hoping to get a fair few so have bitten the bullet and placed an As order for delivery tomorrow (local c+c slots all full)
They best not try to just deliver me my loaf of bread :rotfl:Historic Debt August 2009 = £63,600 10th March 2017 = £0 100% paid all gone!
Mortgage started June 2015 = £170,000 January 2022 = £134,000
Saving for Xmas 2022= . . Amazon £55
If you focus on what you have left behind, you won't see what lies ahead - Gusteau0 -
TrulyMadly wrote: »Just about to p,ace my order and.......A site temporarily unavailable:o
Oh isn't Phyllis adorable?:)
Persevere, it took me nearly 20 mins to checkout.
Site kept telling me my internet connection was broken :mad:Historic Debt August 2009 = £63,600 10th March 2017 = £0 100% paid all gone!
Mortgage started June 2015 = £170,000 January 2022 = £134,000
Saving for Xmas 2022= . . Amazon £55
If you focus on what you have left behind, you won't see what lies ahead - Gusteau0 -
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scamps1966 wrote: »Weird how I quoted your post and it came back with mine!!!
She keeps saying that she's looking out for her son, she dosen't want him 'damaged' by all this. This is a 'kid' who's 6' 8" 25+ stone and is now 18 yrs old. She's too much of a mother'er (is that a word>) she mothers him too much. Can't seem to get through to to her that he's not a kid anymore! As for her family. (mum&dad) They never ever have to find out if we're seeing each other!!
I honestly don't know what to do, Do I try and sort this out or do I walk away and try and start again.
:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: your secret is safe with the elite, and the rest of the general public that read this forum :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:Back to square one, no apg, no comment.0 -
When we were in Bella Italia I found Mimi lolOne cannot change the past, but one can ruin the present by worrying over the future.0
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scamps1966 wrote: »Weird how I quoted your post and it came back with mine!!!
She keeps saying that she's looking out for her son, she dosen't want him 'damaged' by all this. This is a 'kid' who's 6' 8" 25+ stone and is now 18 yrs old. She's too much of a mother'er (is that a word>) she mothers him too much. Can't seem to get through to to her that he's not a kid anymore! As for her family. (mum&dad) They never ever have to find out if we're seeing each other!!
I honestly don't know what to do, Do I try and sort this out or do I walk away and try and start again.
You don't have to do anything at all scamps...for now....sit back and watch...it's all still unravelling before your eyes. I'm sure though, as others have said, that you are better than this and certainly deserve more out of a relationship......To do is to be. Rousseau
To be is to do. Sartre
Do be do be do. Sinatra0
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