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What if things don't work out........?

I'm in the process go getting a mortgage with my girlfriend, total cost is £310k, I'm paying deposit of £70k, the rest is on a joint mortgage. (With a split of 60/40 equity).

Hypothetically, what would happen if we split up?

I could afford the mortgage on my own, just, so would I just give her the equity she's owed, then a transfer of equity?

Or would it go back to the underwriters who would check my affordability then I'd have to go through the whole mortgage process again?

Obviously i hope this doesn't happen, but I'm a worrier!

Thanks

Andrew
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  • Let_Us_See
    Let_Us_See Posts: 1,319 Forumite
    edited 6 February 2014 at 3:36PM
    Yes, you are more or less correct. The lender would have to release your girlfriend from her mortgage obligation and this is only likely to happen if
    you meet their affordability criteria. When you mention a 60/40 split I assume you refer to a Tenants in Common agreement?
  • I'm in the process go getting a mortgage with my girlfriend, total cost is £310k, I'm paying deposit of £70k, the rest is on a joint mortgage. (With a split of 60/40 equity).

    Hypothetically, what would happen if we split up?

    I could afford the mortgage on my own, just, so would I just give her the equity she's owed, then a transfer of equity?

    Or would it go back to the underwriters who would check my affordability then I'd have to go through the whole mortgage process again?

    Obviously i hope this doesn't happen, but I'm a worrier!

    Thanks

    Andrew

    You should do a Trust Deed now that states you get back the £70,000 THEN split the mortgage.

    Your lender will need to assess your affordability on the outstanding mortgage then offer you a mortgage, if you need to make a lump sum payment to the possible EX then that will need to be added.

    She signs a "Transfer of Equity" form and also a form to change the Deeds. You will pay fees for the mortgage and solicitors.

    If you have worries now, REAL worries that the relationship is rocky then don't do it.
    "Dream World" by The B Sharps....describes a lot of the posts in the Loans and Mortgage sections !!!
  • L|x
    L|x Posts: 23 Forumite
    If you do tenancy in common and get a trust deed to specify the shares, and you can afford buying her out then yes, it should not be that difficult. The cost of doing the transfer of equity is something like £500-£700 (legal & lender fees) and you obviously need to pay her equity she's after.

    The "fun" starts if you have kids together and then split.
  • Let_Us_See
    Let_Us_See Posts: 1,319 Forumite
    Wow. Mortgage advice, plus an Agony Aunt!
  • Thanks for your replies,

    Yes, I meant tenants in common, but I didn't think about the 60/40 split after the £70k. Is a trust deed something the solicitor can draw up?

    I guess I'm just having some cold feet before such a big purchase.......

    I'm sure things will be fine :-)
  • Yes, speak to your solicitor about a Trust Deed.
    "Dream World" by The B Sharps....describes a lot of the posts in the Loans and Mortgage sections !!!
  • L|x
    L|x Posts: 23 Forumite
    Yes the solicitor does it for you at the time of purchase and the deed specifies who contributes what to the purchase and mortgage payments etc, and also who owns what shares. It is up to you to decide who owns what shares, but the solicitor can help suggest an 'equitable' arrangement.
  • amnblog
    amnblog Posts: 12,769 Forumite
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    Get a trust deed done.

    Keep yourself in a position where you can be underwritten on the mortgage on your own.

    That way you are protected.
    I am a Mortgage Broker

    You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Broker, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice.
  • getmore4less
    getmore4less Posts: 46,882 Forumite
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    edited 6 February 2014 at 3:30PM
    Loads of threads on how to not do this.

    The best way is by equity shares which works for all values, value going up and down.

    The other where you get your deposit back first is in efect a loan to the other party interest free and does not reflect the true situation.

    If you search I have posted the details numerous times.
    .


    For a £310k place with a £70k deposit, paying 50% of the mortgage each

    the equity split is £120k:£190k or 38.71% and 61.3

    on sale you split the procceds at that ratio and then pay of 50% each of the mortgage.

    any overpayments are 50:50 ( for unequal overpayments you recalculate the mortgage % NOT the equity)

    any improvements/maintenance is done on the equity split.


    WARNING: a lot of solicitors are no good with numbers.
  • getmore4less
    getmore4less Posts: 46,882 Forumite
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    edited 6 February 2014 at 3:44PM
    Foxy-Stoat wrote: »
    You should do a Trust Deed now that states you get back the £70,000 THEN split the mortgage.

    This is not a good idea as it does not reflect the true equity/risk

    It is the same as giving a £35k interest free loan to the other person and the share would need to be 50:50 if the mortgage is being paid that %.

    Having a different % means that one party is not treated fairly if prices go up or down.
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