Stressed and Obsessing

Bella_Smythe

this business over houses, and what to do, is really getting to me. I have suffered from depression in the part and am always anxious, I have PTSD following domestic violence when I was with my ex partner (the one who I gifted the 'other' house to in 2012).
I have been ok-ish for a while but I can feel anxiety building up and i keep going over and over in my head what to do. if the OR goes after the other house I think i will have no option but to move away like 100 or more miles away. if that is even possible for a bankrupt.
I want to bury my head in the sand but that will not work for long. I also have chronic health problems which is why my earning power is half what it was two or three years ago.
sometimes it seems easier just to end it all

longtermplanner

Have you called StepChange? When things keep going round and round in your head, you need some FACTS.

woodformoretrees

You may also want to speak to your doctor and a women's charity in relation to both your stress and the domestic implications of your bankruptcy. It would to be good to have an advocate.

Your last sentence worries me and I hope that you have have someone with you that you can talk to. I know it's so easy to feel overwhelmed when it's all unknown and your dealing with everything zooming around in your head. It will help if you can speak to someone.

Matts_Mum

I really understand what you must be going through. I have been there. Believe me please, it gets better. Please seek advice from someone, the Step Change charity were excellent. Once you have something down in writing it becomes easier to deal with; it's like downloading stuff from your brain onto paper. I've taken two years to get to where I am now, and I feel so much better. PM me if you want to. Take care

Bella_Smythe

hi yes someones with me. sorry. not meaning to be over dramatic just sometimes seems there is no way out and the thought of revisiting the years when i was bullied and stalked terrifies me.
thanks. good advice. will try to get some hard facts. its just making phone calls seems overwhelmingly difficult at the moment but ill just have to be a big brave girl won't I?