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  • Tashja
    Tashja Posts: 1,215 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hi hun

    Welcome to DFW - ((hugs)) for everything you are going through at the moment.

    The only worry I have is not the 100k he ran up 4/5 years ago but what debt he is accruing NOW. I feel that if he thinks he is getting away with the debt from years ago he is just carrying on running it up now thinking he can get away from it again :(

    Please be careful and as advised above DO NOT take on any of his debt and DO NOT let him borrow against the house.

    ((hugs))

    T xx
  • tallyhoh
    tallyhoh Posts: 2,307 Forumite
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    You are all talking loads of sense. I wish I had you peeps 16 years ago when I had people knocking on the door then. I should have known it would never get better.
    Knowing I have you here makes me feel at least I have someone to talk to about it who understand and dont judge.
    Thank You All!!
    Tallyhoh! Stopped Smoking October 2000. Saved £29382.50 so far!
  • tealady
    tealady Posts: 3,851 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    Judgement ain't what we are here for. Help, advice even a giggle you will find them all here and hopefully they will help you find the strenght to get through this. Good luck.
    Find out who you are and do that on purpose (thanks to Owain Wyn Jones quoting Dolly Parton)
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