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robroyin
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My girlfriend and me bought a house a year ago paying 20 % deposit for 166000 house but we have now split she doesn't want anything to do with the house and wants her name off the mortgage and the title deeds
My mortgage lender has refused to transfer the equity as I do not meet the income criteria even though i can afford to make the payments. the lender wants a deposit of £26,000 from me to cover the income gap which i cannot afford at the moment. I can only afford 10k
But I do want to keep the house
Do i need to inform that lender that she has moved out of the house and i am paying the mortgage?
IF i do inform them what actions would they take?
Can i sell the house? also not sure what their terms are if i do sell it within 2 years of buying.do i pay a huge commission ?
can i just continue paying the mortgage ?
Can i rent out the place may be in 6 months time as I want to move to another location due to job commitments
Any advice will be greatly appreciated
My mortgage lender has refused to transfer the equity as I do not meet the income criteria even though i can afford to make the payments. the lender wants a deposit of £26,000 from me to cover the income gap which i cannot afford at the moment. I can only afford 10k
But I do want to keep the house
Do i need to inform that lender that she has moved out of the house and i am paying the mortgage?
IF i do inform them what actions would they take?
Can i sell the house? also not sure what their terms are if i do sell it within 2 years of buying.do i pay a huge commission ?
can i just continue paying the mortgage ?
Can i rent out the place may be in 6 months time as I want to move to another location due to job commitments
Any advice will be greatly appreciated
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Do i need to inform that lender that she has moved out of the house and i am paying the mortgage?IF i do inform them what actions would they take?Can i sell the house?also not sure what their terms are if i do sell it within 2 years of buying.do i pay a huge commission ?can i just continue paying the mortgage ?Can i rent out the place may be in 6 months time as I want to move to another location due to job commitmentsI am a mortgage broker. You should note that this site doesn't check my status as a Mortgage Adviser, so you need to take my word for it. This signature is here as I follow MSE's Mortgage Adviser Code of Conduct. Any posts on here are for information and discussion purposes only and shouldn't be seen as financial advice. Please do not send PMs asking for one-to-one-advice, or representation.0
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My girlfriend and me bought a house a year ago paying 20 % deposit for 166000 house but we have now split she doesn't want anything to do with the house and wants her name off the mortgage and the title deeds
She may not want anything to do with the house, but as things stand she is jointly liable for the mortgage. Is she still contributing to it? If the lender won't agree to removing her name and you still want to live there, she may have to put up with it.
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While you can quite happily continue paying the mortgage be aware that:
- Your ex will always own half the house.
- You are both jointly liable for the mortgage payments.
- Both of you could take out secured loans on the house.
- If either of you goes bankrupt you may have to sell the house.
- If after paying off the house in 25 years, your ex will still be entitled to half the house.
- As the owner she could decide to move in...
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Does your girlfriend want her share of the deposit back?0
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While you can quite happily continue paying the mortgage be aware that:
- Your ex will always own half the house.
- You are both jointly liable for the mortgage payments.
- Both of you could take out secured loans on the house.
- If either of you goes bankrupt you may have to sell the house.
- If after paying off the house in 25 years, your ex will still be entitled to half the house.
- As the owner she could decide to move in...
You might as well ask the Wizard of Oz to give you a big number as pay a Credit Referencing Agency for a so-called 'credit-score'0 -
She may not want anything to do with the house, but as things stand she is jointly liable for the mortgage. Is she still contributing to it? If the lender won't agree to removing her name and you still want to live there, she may have to put up with it.
If money were tight, could you get a lodger?
she is not contributing to it. I could get a lodger but do i have to inform the lender about this? at this moment I am comfortable paying the mortage and do not require one but she needs to get her name off the mortgage is there anyway i could get it off? can i go through another lender and remortgage in my name0 -
Thrugelmir wrote: »Does your girlfriend want her share of the deposit back?
She didn't pay anything for the deposit but did put a few furnishings in house which i am going to pay back0 -
She didn't pay anything for the deposit but did put a few furnishings in house which i am going to pay backYou might as well ask the Wizard of Oz to give you a big number as pay a Credit Referencing Agency for a so-called 'credit-score'0
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Why? Let her have them if she wants them, but if she does not, remind her that everything you pay her delays the day you can take over the mortgage.
like the way she does not want to do anything with d mortgage i feel it is my responsibility to give her back whatever she invested in the house, with regards to furnishings she can take her stuff with her but i dont think she has the place to do it right now so i will pay her back.
Is there anyother way i can get her name off the mortgage. or transfer it in someones name ?
she is going to move out of the country in a couple of months,
Can i make an agreement with her that she does want to do mortgage and she wants nothing in future if i continue paying the mortgage can i get this worded from a solicitor and will it be legally binding if i do make an agreement.
or are there anyother vendors around who could make this mortgage solely in my name?0
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