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The Sun will shine in my Garden Again.

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  • elly68
    elly68 Posts: 2,556 Forumite
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    Ist overpayment done woodchip compost today ,the other 2 no joy yet ,tomorrow i will write my new list which includes new passports .
    Got a lovely letter from marie curie saying mums stuff got them £233
    With giftaid being 66.00 thought thats lovely till i read thē last line that said if i had not paid enough tax i would be liable for hmrc for the 66.00 they dont tell you that when u sign .makes you think eh.
    Weather not as good today packing tonight for the booty tomorrow cant wait .
    So finally debt free and it feels amazing however continuing here to stay debt free.Next declutter house and body and finally swim under that waterfall x
  • elly68
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    Oh well car boot went the wayside to catchup with a good freind im happy that i did but poorer for it and the junk is still trying to escape the downstairs and upstairs cupboards .
    Passport stuff almost done i'm so chuffed with my garden and the sun is definately shining in scotland ,this weeks list
    1 bootsale bootsale bootsale
    2 transfer shopping money to cc and just try and not use
    3 get spending money for dd organise
    4 start the diet im awful at the minute
    5 try clubbercise again wed but im not convinced a day late but there u are
    So finally debt free and it feels amazing however continuing here to stay debt free.Next declutter house and body and finally swim under that waterfall x
  • elly68
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    Been a while too busy in the garden,life and holiday .
    I'm back off to uni for another course for work will need to negatiate a pay rise as this course means a change in role .kids are almost done with holidays need to get blazers sorted dd gets exam results tuesday crapping myself for her the pressure of teachers saying you ar a straight a student .
    Need a new list
    1 sort out course and payrise
    2 tackle nettle patch as plastic didnt work
    3 put away holiday clothes fab time and done on the cheap
    4 apart from school clothes no new clothes unless beyond repair .
    5 sell sell sell declutter declutter declutter .
    Hope you are all well garden needs to be finished by 24th love a challenge .
    So finally debt free and it feels amazing however continuing here to stay debt free.Next declutter house and body and finally swim under that waterfall x
  • elly68
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    Well been away from the rain back to earth with a bump ,Long chat with hubby on last night of holiday re level of debt ,to be honest added up its less tham most of my friends mortgages but I DONT CARE ...he doesnt even open his statements it does my head in that aman who does budgets for work doesn't here . Well pub every friday and sat is kaiboshed is that even how you spell that haha . Anyhow we have no purchases needed clothes or otherwise in the next six months kids have been told so net flix and the 1990 drink stash will be our weekends since both are free and I actually checked the food before buying .
    He didnt even say anything this time just agreed we have two years before dd goes to uni this must be sorted . Happy Sunday folks x
    So finally debt free and it feels amazing however continuing here to stay debt free.Next declutter house and body and finally swim under that waterfall x
  • elly68
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    Well Sunday update ,my biggest fear with the debt was always one of us getting sick and not being able to work or worse die on the other one leaving them financially !!!!ed.
    So last week decided on consolidation loan as we are paying to high interest on cc to clear them ,so loan will be 238 amonth which frees up 60 a month for the cc that is interest free till july and only has 2600 on it .so will pay 300 a month starting thismonth to clear it .
    Oh has two cc which he has rattled with holidays and uni fees so as soon as cc number two cleared we will use this money to start paying double payments to his cc think i can debt bust the extra two in two years .
    Food shopping lixdl and farmfoo massive savings still need dog food ,toilet paper and razors but total for week and those items make it a dear one 100 so very happy .
    Unfortunately on the get sick line dh is wearing a 24hr bp and needs 24 hr ecg due to stress well theres a !!!!ixx suprise .
    He is a quiet man personally as a nurse i think gp is being hopeful that its stress but i did the ecg and it looks physiological rather than psychological .how do you ask his parents re f/history without raising alarm bells .
    Oh well he was already on board regarding the debt busting he is just more so now.
    Tidied round my lovely garden yesterday couldnt figure out why i was so sore last night in bed then remembered the weeding ,physical exercise is good for stress .
    Happy sunday folks ohh thats dh awake and footsteps mean he is breathing x
    So finally debt free and it feels amazing however continuing here to stay debt free.Next declutter house and body and finally swim under that waterfall x
  • elly68
    elly68 Posts: 2,556 Forumite
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    Well my determination is not making my oh happy he agreed on last night of holiday and on return that i could open ,check balances on his cc ,and work out to our solution to this crisis as i believe our money situation is a large part of his stress resulting in his current health worry .we both have good money coming in and if we both wind our necks in the family will be better off overall . So I decide to open statements today as they have been there since Thursday and still unopened ,there are no real surprises in the balance ,interest is higher than he said and I am now recieving a lecture in privacy well tough enough is enough if we aint got it we aint spending it .
    I have snowballed today and we can be cc free in 24 months and loan free in 36 with £200 clear a week for food and fun so if I stop wasting food in the kitchen they will ea the crap in the freezer and no extras will be bought we can either add to a cc or go for a pint sounds god to me .He has contributed stopping dd for tv internet stuff and swapping electric think he just didnt want to admit to balances as they stand .Well I dont care 1st of Nov the new snowball payments are being made .Think I might end up here daily for a while
    So finally debt free and it feels amazing however continuing here to stay debt free.Next declutter house and body and finally swim under that waterfall x
  • elly68
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    Happy weekend folks well loan has cleared and cc 1 which was accruing interest at a terrible rate is now being paid in loan form ,cc closed shut gone .will contact re other card and increase payment ,feels great .have been offered another loan which im tempted to take for oh cc will finish sorting mine first then start jigging his .happy weekend folks its a wet one here x
    So finally debt free and it feels amazing however continuing here to stay debt free.Next declutter house and body and finally swim under that waterfall x
  • :beer:

    well done

    keep chipping away :j
  • elly68
    elly68 Posts: 2,556 Forumite
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    Hi choco ,thanks it feels great to have cleared it and oh is with me on the whole lets get this cleared . Shopping cheap so i caved and took oh to pub for drinks we spent 10 because we one the football card lol he never gambles and ev1 laughed cause he put it in my name . Sat with a nice couple and had a blether .
    Started studying today finally focussed and started dreaming of a holiday home and stopped the it search nope no daydreaming i can make my own house my holiday home retreat so garden it is today whilst its dry ...sometimes its the simple pleasures to easy to be distracted with the wants while my only real want is to be debt and mortgage free . There will be no
    New shes,no,new clothes,no meals out ,no holidays ...the occasional planned night out thats it .Hapoy Sunday folks the sun is definately shining in my garden x
    So finally debt free and it feels amazing however continuing here to stay debt free.Next declutter house and body and finally swim under that waterfall x
  • elly68
    elly68 Posts: 2,556 Forumite
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    Well didnt take loan for second cc i now have 0% cc for other for 18 months so can crack on paying that off im so pleased both hubby and i may get a good raise in jan as long as i pass my exam getting good finally at jigging my money around so pleased ,then will tackle hubbys cards . Xmas is all in apart from food had to by both kids clothes forced by groing dd should stop now then its just ds who is like a quickly growing labrador pup but hes good and will wear cheaper trainers than most teenagers . Life really is coming together i have a !!!! thing to do in march so 2017 aint gonna start till easter for me but will get head down and embrace my new role and complete next module at uni as that will seal my career with hopefully no more uni ever and sit in a nice job for 12 years who ever knows ...take care all the sun really is tinkering down into my garden today x
    So finally debt free and it feels amazing however continuing here to stay debt free.Next declutter house and body and finally swim under that waterfall x
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