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Has the bullying attitude taken over companies these days?

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  • falko89
    falko89 Posts: 1,687 Forumite
    ILW wrote: »
    Does seem that actually telling someone to turn up on time and get to work is considered bullying by some.

    I think some employers need to learn how to motivate people, treating people like crap isn't gonna motivate anyone if anything it will have the opposite effect, a bit of praise once in a while does go a long way, problem is certain employers will just get rid.
  • TrickyWicky
    TrickyWicky Posts: 4,025 Forumite
    ILW wrote: »
    Does seem that actually telling someone to turn up on time and get to work is considered bullying by some.

    Who has said that?

    I've not seen anyone say that.
  • ILW
    ILW Posts: 18,333 Forumite
    Who has said that?

    I've not seen anyone say that.
    Have you seen some of the posts regarding bullying?
    "Funny looks" and "not sharing jokes" are some of the supposed criteria for bullying which usually then involve going on the sick with stress.
  • TrickyWicky
    TrickyWicky Posts: 4,025 Forumite
    ILW wrote: »
    Have you seen some of the posts regarding bullying?
    "Funny looks" and "not sharing jokes" are some of the supposed criteria for bullying which usually then involve going on the sick with stress.

    You've never been the victim of that then have you?

    It's never nice being on the receiving end but when you're on the dishing out end (presumably like you) there isn't a problem. Funny that..

    Either way there was still nothing like that mentioned in this thread!
  • AP007
    AP007 Posts: 7,109 Forumite
    ILW wrote: »
    Have you seen some of the posts regarding bullying?
    "Funny looks" and "not sharing jokes" are some of the supposed criteria for bullying which usually then involve going on the sick with stress.
    you give a funny look back and regarding the not shared jokes you say 'what's so funny?'.

    I joined a team who didn't speak and use to pass post it notes to each other. That stopped when I had been there a few weeks as I got them all more involved in actually talking to each other and 2 more new team members started. Something I think they had actually forgot they could do or were too scared to.
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  • ILW
    ILW Posts: 18,333 Forumite
    You've never been the victim of that then have you?

    It's never nice being on the receiving end but when you're on the dishing out end (presumably like you) there isn't a problem. Funny that..

    Either way there was still nothing like that mentioned in this thread!
    I have been on the receiving end, but just let it wash over me. As long as I got paid I truly could not have cared less whether I was in any particular clique or not. I work to make a living, not as a social occasion.
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