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Wedding Tipping

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Hi

OH and I were wondering if people tip or not at weddings? I've looked online and its pretty much said if you want to, and in America its expected, but I think its expected over here to now.

What is everyone else doing/done?

Who are you tipping and how much? Or are you deciding on the day?

Thanks

x

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  • 74jax
    74jax Posts: 7,930 Forumite
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    We tipped the venue staff £100. But it was a small venue and we dealt with the staff from start to finish and knew it would go direct to them.
    Forty and fabulous, well that's what my cards say....
  • Personally i think were paying enough and wouldnt tip unless something extraordinary happens but its up to you
  • Faith177
    Faith177 Posts: 2,927 Forumite
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    I worked weddings at a hotel and it was always nice to receive a tip at the end of the night.

    I tipped everyone who worked at my wedding. The make up artist and hair dresser got £10 and a bottle of prosseco.

    We tipped our piper and gave the venue staff enough so each person got £10 as we were so impressed with their attention to detail their level of service and just their general attitude during the whole process
    First Date 08/11/2008, Moved In Together 01/06/2009, Engaged 01/01/10, Wedding Day 27/04/2013, Baby Moshie due 29/06/2019 :T
  • Sazzarella
    Sazzarella Posts: 403 Forumite
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    I've not heard of this and won't be tipping anyone. I don't usually tip in restaurants either so no different than usual.
    Married 30/08/14 :heartpuls
  • hels234
    hels234 Posts: 150 Forumite
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    I would only tip if someone did something above or exceptional for what I would expect for their job. Any rudeness, bad manners or plain un civilness and not a chance! Maybe I'm a little harsh but I certainly don't do it as "the norm" and neither do any of my friends. Hope your day goes well :-)
  • I've got no plans to tip anyone, I can't afford to! If anyone did anything exceptional then I may do, but don't believe in tipping someone for something I have already paid for :smiley:
  • Weequine
    Weequine Posts: 65 Forumite
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    I won't be tipping anyone; we've kept our budget within our means and it's stretched as it is. As far as I'm concerned, if I've paid for a service then I get that service. I'm not paying any more for someone doing what we've agreed a price for. If someone made a choice to do something over and above what we've paid for, then I'm afraid it's hard luck. I'm not paying for something I never agreed to.
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