Marriage over

Mlm910

Can't seem to want to be close to my husband can't stand him touching me or anything is my marriage over has anyone else felt like this and over came it or not.

BitterAndTwisted

If you've decide your marriage is over, then it is but the only person you should be discussing your feelings with is your husband. He has a right to know that you can't seem to want to be close, and I expect he fully realises that you can't stand him touching you but might be completely in the dark about why.

If you have any respect left for him whatsoever you need to communicate with him properly.

What other people felt or did has nothing to do with your marriage

vodkachick68

Has you felt this way just recently or for a while? Sorry but this is how I started to feel about my husband,it went on for a couple of years until I could no longer stand being in his company or the marriage. I just didn't love him anymore. We separated 18 months ago.

I am not saying that this will happen to your marriage but you both need to work at it and communicate with each other. You need to try and talk to him about how your feeling.

Hope it works out for you.

MandM90

Please, please, PLEASE talk to him about this and give him (and you) a chance to turn things around. He may surprise you.

Relate can offer free couples counselling for those struggling financially. None of us know you, your husband or the situation you're in - we're really not the people to turn to for advice, but I personally couldn't walk away from a marriage - remember, you've promised to be with and support this person for LIFE - without knowing I did everything I could. Running away isn't always the answer.

CH27

Has something triggered this?

I've felt like it with my OH once or twice in twenty odd years. We've always worked it out though.

sharp82

Calling Troll

gingin_2

sharp82 wrote: »

Calling Troll

It's a bit early for that. It's a very typical situation when a marriage is in dire straits.

I haven't felt like it to that extreme but I know that when I am down in myself (like of late) I can't think straight and push my husband away and don't focus on the emotional side of our relationship, which is not healthy.

It could be other things but you need to elaborate.

CH27

sharp82 wrote: »

Calling Troll

Whoopy doo for you

sharp82

gingin wrote: »

It's a bit early for that. It's a very typical situation when a marriage is in dire straits.

I haven't felt like it to that extreme but I know that when I am down in myself (like of late) I can't think straight and push my husband away and don't focus on the emotional side of our relationship, which is not healthy.

It could be other things but you need to elaborate.

Just seems a little odd for a first post, with no background.

Hmn, got marriage problems, where shall I go... I know, a money saving forum will sort me out

gingin_2

sharp82 wrote: »

Just seems a little odd for a first post, with no background.

Hmn, got marriage problems, where shall I go... I know, a money saving forum will sort me out

It could well be an AE and this is the marriages board where we tend to talk about anything but money saving.

aliasojo

sharp82 wrote: »

Just seems a little odd for a first post, with no background.

Hmn, got marriage problems, where shall I go... I know, a money saving forum will sort me out

And I'd suggest you are still far too new to have this place sussed.

Assuming you are new?

This could very well be a wind up but it's too early to tell as said above. Similar posts have been made here over the years, it's perfectly feasible.