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  • AlexLK
    AlexLK Posts: 6,125 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Sorry to hear about Mr. W's dad, Watty. :(

    How's the sleep going?
    2018 totals:
    Savings £11,200
    Mortgage Overpayments £5,500
  • themadvix
    themadvix Posts: 9,309 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Mortgage-free Glee! Photogenic
    Sorry to hear about Mr Watty's Dad :( I hope they get him sorted soon and you get a chance to catch your breath.

    Sounds like Mr Watty is catching on with the retirement idea though! :)
    Mortgage free 16/06/2023! £132,500 cleared in 11 years, 3 months and 7 days

    'Now is no time to think of what you do not have. Think of what you can do with what there is.' Ernest Hemingway


  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    No update from you since the 20th. Thinking of you, and hoping things are getting sorted out.
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • Watty I am thinking of you xx
    MFW :)
    [STRIKE]Mortgage 8.2.15 - [/STRIKE][STRIKE]£171,064.64[/STRIKE] Mortgage 1.5.2018 - £99,980.45
    Aiming to be MF 1.10.2020
  • greent
    greent Posts: 10,914 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Hope things are easing up, Watty, and that Mr W's dad's meds are all sorted again x
    I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul
    Repaid mtge early (orig 11/25) 01/09 £124616 01/11 £89873 01/13 £52546 01/15 £12133 07/15 £NIL
    Net sales 2024: £20
  • apple_muncher
    apple_muncher Posts: 15,364 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Mortgage-free Glee! Name Dropper
    Another one thinking of you, Mr Watty and Mr Watty senior. I hope you are able to find some resolutions to the different situations that suit you all.
    NST March lion #8; NSD ; MFW9/3/23 Whoop Whoop!!!
  • AlexLK
    AlexLK Posts: 6,125 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Also hope you're OK and your family too, Watty. :)
    2018 totals:
    Savings £11,200
    Mortgage Overpayments £5,500
  • Watty1
    Watty1 Posts: 7,639 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Thank you all, you lovely people for stopping by and sending good wishes.
    Things unravelled somewhat predictably and so I have been catching up. Mr Watty's dad moved from hospital to a care home where they have experience of mental health. And so, once he is stable again we will start the round of getting him home. He so wants to come home that we will honour that - but my goodness it is hard with him at home. Still we have learnt a lot about his drugs and we can be more on the ball "next time" because - sigh - there is bound to be a next time.
    Made it to mortgage free but what a muddle that became

    In the event the proverbial hits the fan then co-habitees are better stashing their cash than being mortgage free !!
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    I'm glad you were able to find a home with the right experience of his difficulties and his rehabilitation ... sorry it's an added drain for you, though, Watty.
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • So sorry to read about Mr Watty's father. Sending tons of positive strength to you both.

    Tilly xxxx
    2004 £387k 29 years - MF March 2033:eek:
    2011 £309k 10 years - MF March 2021.
    Achieved Goal: 28/08/15 :j
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