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Nasty PM - thank you

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  • Well done Weller! Post #97 says it all - good for you. The person is sad and not worth worrying about.
    Proud to have dealt with my debts. Nerd number 288:j Debt free date Dec 07 :EasterBun
    Mortgage as at Dec 08 : £93,077.00
    Mortgage as at Dec 09 : £ 87,948.12
    Mortgage as at Dec 10 : £ 83,680.23
    Mortgage target for Dec 11: £73,680.23
  • Dumyat
    Dumyat Posts: 2,143 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Mortgage-free Glee!
    weller I havent seen this until now. I'm so sorry the pm upset you so much. there is no need for malice like that. I hope you have been heartened by all these DFW's jumping to defend your honour :)

    I read these boards daily and I see the flirting and joking between members as a bit of friendly banter, not being in a "gang". I have never felt excluded and the way posters rally round to help anyone in trouble is testament to that.
    x x x
  • tealady
    tealady Posts: 3,851 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    Dogrose I couldn't agree more about people rallying round. As for being in a gang, yes were are ALL in the "gang" its the MSE addicts gang and I'm PROUD to be a member cos I can say I have hundreds of wonderful friends.
    Weller don't stop posting this site needs people like you who will hold out a hand to others in trouble, not like the troll who PM'd you who seems to take delight in kicking people in the teeth. Well if the troll who sent you that message is reading this try sending me a PM but watch out, I'm a rottweiler with attitude.
    Find out who you are and do that on purpose (thanks to Owain Wyn Jones quoting Dolly Parton)
  • brainfreeze
    brainfreeze Posts: 182 Forumite
    Hi Weller

    Another one who has just caught this thread. I am so angry you had to go through the upset of receiving this PM....but in true DFW fashion you have proved you are strong person, faced it, dealt with it, and are all the better for it.

    I love being a DFW and although I don't post often I love feeling part of the gang.

    Take care, keep smiling and have a great weekend.
  • Ches
    Ches Posts: 1,120 Forumite
    I don't know if this has any connection but my user name has been hijacked and a thread started in my name that wasn't posted by me. Is it possible that this is the case with your nasty PM. I woke in the night worring about this in case someone uses my name to be nasty which is something I would never do. BTW I have reported the abuse.
    Mortgage and Debt free but need to increase savings pot. :think:
  • moonlightpjs
    moonlightpjs Posts: 1,583 Forumite
    Ches wrote: »
    I don't know if this has any connection but my user name has been hijacked and a thread started in my name that wasn't posted by me. Is it possible that this is the case with your nasty PM. I woke in the night worring about this in case someone uses my name to be nasty which is something I would never do. BTW I have reported the abuse.

    No, it wasn't your user name so don't worry :)
  • GirlRacer_2
    GirlRacer_2 Posts: 3,026 Forumite
    I didn't know they could hijack your user name. That's worrying. I'm glad you've made a stand against this bully weller. Just look at the number of replies this thread has generated. That surely tells you how much your DFW buddies want you here x
  • hamletcigars
    hamletcigars Posts: 2,920 Forumite
    Ches wrote: »
    my user name has been hijacked and a thread started in my name.

    Is that really possible ,how did they get into it?
    Fear God and dread nought :cool:
  • cattie1
    cattie1 Posts: 2,068 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    hi weller I have posted on a few of your threads but I just want to say you are better than them and you know it!
    I think you have handled the situation perfectly.
    I don't understand why people feel the need to be so horrible on here?!
    I think this thread shows just how much you are loved by everyone and if that person that pm'd you sees it will soon realise how wrong they were!
    official dfw nerd club member no 214
    Proud to be dealing with my debts!;)
    Why is a person that handles your money called a broker?!:confused:
  • malvena_2
    malvena_2 Posts: 213 Forumite
    Hi Weller

    Just found this thread and I think it proves to the person who sent the PM how well thought of you are on the site. I am a bit of a lurker rather than a poster, but always enjoy your contribution.

    Also nice reply, Think it says it all.

    x
    DFW Nerd no 546
    Official 10k New Years Resolution
    £10k by 31/12/2008
    Earn £10 a day in Jan challenge: Target £310 - So far £184.98
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