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Writing a reference

I have been asked to write a reference for someone and it has popped through the door earlier this week.

I have no idea what I am doing.

I have two boxes to fill.

One is comment on the suitability for the job from the job spec and the other is my impressions on suitability as well as strengths and weakness etc.

I worked with this person approx 4 years ago.

Can any one give any pointers so I need to get this done over the weekend to get it back ASAP.

Thanks in advance.

Yours

Calley
Hope for everything and expect nothing!!!

Good enough is almost always good enough -Prof Barry Schwartz

If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try -Seth Godin
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  • Voyager2002
    Voyager2002 Posts: 16,349 Forumite
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    calleyw wrote: »
    I have been asked to write a reference for someone and it has popped through the door earlier this week.

    I have no idea what I am doing.

    I have two boxes to fill.

    One is comment on the suitability for the job from the job spec and the other is my impressions on suitability as well as strengths and weakness etc.

    I worked with this person approx 4 years ago.

    Can any one give any pointers so I need to get this done over the weekend to get it back ASAP.

    Thanks in advance.

    Yours

    Calley

    You could ring the person and ask what s/he wants you to say.
  • AP007
    AP007 Posts: 7,109 Forumite
    calleyw wrote: »
    I have been asked to write a reference for someone and it has popped through the door earlier this week.

    I have no idea what I am doing.

    I have two boxes to fill.

    One is comment on the suitability for the job from the job spec and the other is my impressions on suitability as well as strengths and weakness etc.

    I worked with this person approx 4 years ago.

    Can any one give any pointers so I need to get this done over the weekend to get it back ASAP.

    Thanks in advance.

    Yours

    Calley
    you will have the info you need on the ex employees file, surely? Or appraisals?
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  • Be truthful and factual, it can be a bad reference but you need to back up anything you may say.
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  • calleyw
    calleyw Posts: 9,896 Forumite
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    AP007 wrote: »
    you will have the info you need on the ex employees file, surely? Or appraisals?

    I was there colleague and not there boss.

    Appraisals what are they :rotfl:

    Yours

    Calley
    Hope for everything and expect nothing!!!

    Good enough is almost always good enough -Prof Barry Schwartz

    If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try -Seth Godin
  • Takeaway_Addict
    Takeaway_Addict Posts: 6,538 Forumite
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    calleyw wrote: »
    I was there colleague and not there boss.

    Appraisals what are they :rotfl:

    Yours

    Calley

    If you still work for the company now that the person you are doing a reference for then you HAVE to make sure its done as a friend and not as an employee of said company.

    If you do a reference for a colleague and this is against the company rules you can get yourself into alot of bother
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  • AP007
    AP007 Posts: 7,109 Forumite
    calleyw wrote: »
    I was there colleague and not there boss.

    Appraisals what are they :rotfl:

    Yours

    Calley
    so why are you giving a ref? Do you still work at the same company? If you do are you allowed to do so?
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  • calleyw
    calleyw Posts: 9,896 Forumite
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    we are a small company with no handbook or contracts.

    I doubt my boss could a monkeys I was asked rather than him. And how is he going to find out.

    I am more interested in wording than if it is not allowed by company policy.

    Yours

    Calley
    Hope for everything and expect nothing!!!

    Good enough is almost always good enough -Prof Barry Schwartz

    If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try -Seth Godin
  • Takeaway_Addict
    Takeaway_Addict Posts: 6,538 Forumite
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    edited 29 June 2013 at 7:20PM
    calleyw wrote: »
    we are a small company with no handbook or contracts.

    I doubt my boss could a monkeys I was asked rather than him. And how is he going to find out.

    I am more interested in wording than if it is not allowed by company policy.

    Yours

    Calley
    You've been for-warned :), if you write a reference and it comes back on the company you are the one that will be in the firing line.

    If he won't give a monkeys then why not talk to the boss and get it ok'd?
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  • burnoutbabe
    burnoutbabe Posts: 1,338 Forumite
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    I write references and if i can't answer the questions, I just say minimal stuff.

    If doing one for our company, "x worked for us as XYZ from here to then and was employed on £x." We don't tend to comment on their suitability to their job - I may say "no issues with timekeeping or honesty" if that is a specific question.

    For an ex colleague, after i have left that firm I usually just say i worked with them for these dates and saw them doing "types of work xyz" and nice to be around etc.

    Just say the minimum you can. No one can demand more!
  • AP007
    AP007 Posts: 7,109 Forumite
    calleyw wrote: »
    we are a small company with no handbook or contracts.

    I doubt my boss could a monkeys I was asked rather than him. And how is he going to find out.

    I am more interested in wording than if it is not allowed by company policy.

    Yours

    Calley
    small or large lets hope you are allowed to that's all I am saying

    What if you lied on it and the person turned out to be not what you say? Will all come back to the company

    Oh yes why do you have no contract or handbook?
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