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Ex threating csa and new baby

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My ex is demanding £25 a week or they'll go the CSA.

The Csa said £35 a week if done thrust them; I've arranged to pay the mum £100 every month so no csa involvement.

I have my child three nights a week.

My questions:
If I missed a few months thry my own hardship, and she went csa, what could they do?

She has re married so wouldn't that effect my payments

I have a 6 month old child who's not down as living with me.... But does.

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  • lindseykim13
    lindseykim13 Posts: 2,978 Forumite
    As far as i was aware, her re marrying has nothing to do with your payments for your child. Her new husband doesn't have to pay for your child. I would try to come up with a reasonable plan with your ex or you may be worse off for it.
  • clearingout
    clearingout Posts: 3,290 Forumite
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    The CSA can essentially have your employer deduct your wages prior to you receiving them. That assumes you're not working cash in hand or are not self employed in someway.

    What do you mean you have a child 'not down' as living with you but does?

    Regardless, if you have responsibility for an additional child and the CSA gets involved, there will be a small reduction to take his/her needs into account. That assumes you declare the child is living with you to the CSA.
  • clearingout
    clearingout Posts: 3,290 Forumite
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    oh and the re-marriage thing, do you expect her new husband to be responsible for bringing up your child?

    Her new husband's salary makes no difference to what you need to pay in maintenance. His salary will make a difference to any tax credits or other benefits she may have been receiving as a single parent. So he's already financially supporting your child.
  • superstud
    superstud Posts: 79 Forumite
    Is this right what I've been told...

    If we go thru csa whatever I pay will effectively come out of her money I.e if the csa take £140 a month then some of her benifit money, that I pay my bloody taxes for etc etc, will be reduced as my Maintenance would be classed as taxable income
  • kevin137
    kevin137 Posts: 1,509 Forumite
    The way it would be worked out if the CSA got involved would be 15% of 85% of your wages would be assessable with a reduction of 3/7ths for the overnight stays...!!!

    So as an example, if your take home is £1200

    The assessable amount would be 85% = £1020

    Of the £1020 you would be assessed to pay 15% = £153 monthly

    As you have the child 3 nights a week, that now = £87.42 payable monthly...

    Although if the contact is not confirmed as in overnight by agreement in writing or court ordered/agreed then all she has to say is you don't have the child and that would effectively be the end of it...

    So make sure you have everything in writing regards the agreement so if there is anything in the future you have that to confirm your contact...!
  • clearingout
    clearingout Posts: 3,290 Forumite
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    No. If she's on benefits, there will be no reduction in her benefits as a result of the maintenance you pay. This has been the case now since April 2010.
  • kevin137
    kevin137 Posts: 1,509 Forumite
    superstud wrote: »
    Is this right what I've been told...

    If we go thru csa whatever I pay will effectively come out of her money I.e if the csa take £140 a month then some of her benifit money, that I pay my bloody taxes for etc etc, will be reduced as my Maintenance would be classed as taxable income

    CSA has NO regards to benefit... She would get it all on top of the benefits...!!!
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