marrige falling apart .don't know what to do

JoW123

Oh we posted at the same time thorsoak!!

thorsoak

JoW123 wrote: »

Oh we posted at the same time thorsoak!!

We did ....two minds with but a single thought!!


What a travesty of a tall story ........:mad:

marisco_2

crying_inside wrote: »

Now perhAps you can see where I'm coming from instead of accusing me as making it up. Crazy !

To think the OP had the nerve to write the above when I suggested he was a troll. To come onto a public forum and make up a web of lies about a relative suffering from cancer is sick. It shows no respect whatsoever to all those who have battled that awful disease, or had to try to help and support a friend or loved one who has.

Errata

marisco wrote: »

To think the OP had the nerve to write the above when I suggested he was a troll. To come onto a public forum and make up a web of lies about a relative suffering from cancer is sick. It shows no respect whatsoever to all those who have battled that awful disease, or had to try to help and support a friend or loved one who has.

Perhaps he has Muchausen's by proxy? Never mind, I don't expect any respect - or sense - from nutjobs wibbling on in this way about cancer. They're not well people, not well at all.

Georgiegirl256

thorsoak wrote: »

So if she was lying about the cancer, perhaps you can explain the above statement.

Exactly what I was thinking!

Also, you wouldn't have a Macmillan nurse unless she actually did have cancer.

wossie

The mcmillian benefits advisor was sought after by my wife.
Any corrospondonce was made by email. And to answer you. I have found out there is 2 ways to get one. Via referral or by call centre. Guess which route my wife had.
Also to most of you. How do you think I feel. About talking about cancer. A to my relatives .my mother has been fighting breast cancer. I lost an uncle to cancer. I have also talked on forums and email with people who have and suffered from this horrible thing. I feel utter and complete shame and feel worse . I have talked with a lady who I found on mcmillian forums. She had just lost her husband. She was helping me through the process. For me to have to say sorry to her. That my wife lied.
I came here for some help. I have even commented using my real id. Not to get ridiculed. Yes my wife. That is my wife. Not me. Why do you think I come here asking these questions . I never understood it.

thorsoak

OK - taking your last post at face value - how can you ever trust a woman who has lied in such a manipulative manner again? She has lied to you, to your children, her children and left you in a financial shambles.

Far better that you start planning your life on your own - sell the house whilst you can, clear your debts, and start afresh. Better for your mental health, your financial health - and if you apply for custody of your children, for them as well.

Georgiegirl256

marisco wrote: »

To think the OP had the nerve to write the above when I suggested he was a troll. To come onto a public forum and make up a web of lies about a relative suffering from cancer is sick. It shows no respect whatsoever to all those who have battled that awful disease, or had to try to help and support a friend or loved one who has.

Exactly, people who lie about such a thing make me sick....

Especially when I think what my cousin is going through at the moment

Errata

The mcmillian benefits advisor was sought after by my wife.
Any corrospondonce was made by email. And to answer you. I have found out there is 2 ways to get one. Via referral or by call centre. Guess which route my wife had.

I'll bite - neither!

wossie

She took the contact centre route .then it was through email. . We were supposed to get a blue badge. This was told by email. One never came.

Yes I know about trusting her. I have thought long and hard. But its a case of the devil you know.

I don't know if my conscience will take her back. Maybe im still looking for excuses. Thinking that she needs help.
I dont know. All I know for now. Is im screwed with no job. She could help me by moving back in . Benefits as a family is better than as a single guy.