Reference checking nightmare

tiger_eyes

I agree the questions are intrusive, and however relaxed a person might hypothetically be about their orientation, it's not necessarily something they want their employer to know at a stage when a job offer can still mysteriously evaporate into the ether. Just wanted to suggest a workaround that avoids having to tell an employer that you don't want to answer their questions. Glad they're happy now and I'm crossing my fingers that all goes well with your job.

[Deleted User]

Me too! I've cooperated fully, so really hope everything goes through! Thanks everyone!