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Over £100k of Debt Club

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  • livinginhope
    livinginhope Posts: 1,897 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Zulu_Dawn wrote: »
    Hi Livininhope.

    Nice to hear you are doing so well.

    Fantastic weight loss by the way. How have you managed that?


    Thanks ZD,lost the weight with Weightwatchers,my friend started paying for me to get me started,then I took over,I get the money from the food budget ;) not got too much more to go till goal :D
    Nice to hear from you again,hope things are going ok for you
    LIH
    Debt at highest £102k :eek:
    Lightbulb moment march 2006
    Debt free october2017 :j
    Finally sleeping easy in my bed :A
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    Just wanted to say welcome..I do not have the same amount of debt as you but debt is debt and quite a few people on here have that amount so don't worry too much...it's amazing the amount of money we all seem to be able to save when we put our minds to it...good luck
  • Whino
    Whino Posts: 12 Forumite
    Just interested, those with kids, do they know you are in debt?
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    My kids do know, but have not always done so. They are now at the age where they can understand, and they have to know that there is a reason why we can't go to Florida, and can't just buy x y and z like their friends.

    Although we try not to harp on about our debt at home, because we don't want the children to stress about it, after all it is not their fault, we do feel that they are learning valuable life skills from it - our children can budget, look for offers at the supermarket when they go on errands, and decide whether spending their pocket money as they get it, or saving for bigger items then shopping around to get the best deal is more fun!
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • Zulu_Dawn
    Zulu_Dawn Posts: 282 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 100 Posts Combo Breaker
    Whino wrote: »
    Just interested, those with kids, do they know you are in debt?


    Hi Whino

    I just realised that I never replied to you.


    I shared with my kids that we had had financial problems but as they are both under 10 it really was water of a ducks back. We have found that money means absolutely nothing to ours and a 50p gift off ebay can be just as valued as a £200 present from a rich relation. The problem is with ones feelings of leeting ones children down, even though it is patently nonsense.

    Hope all continues to go well with you.

    All the best

    ZD
    Debt free - achieved Jan 2021

    Mortgage free wannabe - started 15/10/21

    "No man is a failure who has friends"
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