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Biggest Weakness Interview Question
Newwashingmachine
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I've read so many blogs and articles about this question.
I was wondering - is it best to be completely honest.
I find that my self confidence is my biggest concern. I've asked people who work with and know me and they say that I do a fantastic job, am committed, helpful, efficient, accurate etc etc - BUT that they don't think I have enough confidence in what I do.
I am applying for a job in admin and I don't know if this is the right answer to give.
Would saying you lack self confidence go against you do you think?
I was wondering - is it best to be completely honest.
I find that my self confidence is my biggest concern. I've asked people who work with and know me and they say that I do a fantastic job, am committed, helpful, efficient, accurate etc etc - BUT that they don't think I have enough confidence in what I do.
I am applying for a job in admin and I don't know if this is the right answer to give.
Would saying you lack self confidence go against you do you think?
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How about being honest but wording it slightly differently? Perhaps say that you set yourself really high standards but you are your own biggest critic?
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Always try to put a positive spin on any weakness - I like Julie2710's wording.
Good luck!0 -
You can talk about genuine weaknesses, but you must frame it all in a positive way. For example, if you want to mention lack of confidence you could say something like:
"Well I used to lack confidence and it's something that I still have to work on today. To help overcome it I've made a conscious effort to put myself into new and challenging situations - for example in my last job I volunteered to give a talk to a large group of customers..... The result is that I've really made a lot of progress in becoming more confident in the workplace."
And so on. So you're giving a weakness, showing awareness, but showing that you've done something to develop yourself and overcome the weakness. At the same time you're getting in more stuff about how great you are!:)0 -
I would try another trait. Self confidence, especially in a admin role may not be looked on favourably since you are dealing with lots of different people and situations.
As Julie said, you have to put a positive spin on your weakness. So as long as you can persuade the interviewer you recognise the weakness and are working to develop it, it should not be a problem. At the end of the day you just have to be confident during the interview!0 -
I always say chocolate.... Never failed to raise at least a smile and make for a more relaxed interview!0
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Gosh it's difficult isn't it? I don't want to put them off - it's not that I am not good at the job - but just that I worry too much about if I'm doing a good job - even though I get really good appraisals and great feedback.
I'm stumped - but thanks - sounds like it's not a good weakness to say.0 -
I guess one weakness is that I won't just give a 'top of my head' answer to questions, I like to consider my answers carefully before giving them!0
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Newwashingmachine wrote: »Gosh it's difficult isn't it? I don't want to put them off - it's not that I am not good at the job - but just that I worry too much about if I'm doing a good job - even though I get really good appraisals and great feedback.
I'm stumped - but thanks - sounds like it's not a good weakness to say.
I don't think it's a bad thing to say as long as you word it in a positive way. I work in sales and I sometimes lack confidence. I've used the line I gave before at interviews and got the job
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Caroline_a wrote: »I always say chocolate.... Never failed to raise at least a smile and make for a more relaxed interview!
I like this one!:)
OP - Remember that they're really just looking for someone who can turn a negative into a positive.
How about something like "I'm not the most confident person and although I've always had good feedback and positive appraisals I still really worry that I'm not doing my job as well as I could. I think there's a positive side to that though in that I'm always trying to find ways to improve the way I work and I'm very sensitive to people's expectations and requirements."
From what you've said I bet all of the above is true!:)0 -
shortcrust wrote: »I like this one!:)
OP - Remember that they're really just looking for someone who can turn a negative into a positive.
How about something like "I'm not the most confident person and although I've always had good feedback and positive appraisals I still really worry that I'm not doing my job as well as I could. I think there's a positive side to that though in that I'm always trying to find ways to improve the way I work and I'm very sensitive to people's expectations and requirements."
From what you've said I bet all of the above is true!:)
WOW - that's exactly it and I really appreciate your feedback. Thanks a lot!0
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