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Single mum needs HELP!

fernando_vaz
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Hi All,
Sorry if I come across stupid, but have got a bit lost in minefield of what benefits I can and can't claim and thought someone in a similar situation maybe able to help.
I am self employed and pay my own tax and NI.
I work roughly 40 hours a week over 5 days.
My earnings after tax and deductions is around £15-20k - but my average flies up and down depending on the work.
My husband is emplyeed full time on a salary of £35k
We are expecting our first baby on the 20th June 2013.
A month after the baby is born, my husband will continue his job, and I plan to work roughly 3 half days a week. My earning maybe anywhere between £5-10k a year after tax and deductions - but due to the nature of my job one week I might earn £300, the next £1000.
I am aware that I can't claim Statutory Maternity Pay, but I am entitled to Maternity Allowance. I am told that when claiming this, I can work 10 days (doesn't matter if these are for 2 hours or 10 hours), and then I must notify the Job Centre. At which point I could lose it all together, or claim part of it depending on how many hours I work. Does anyone know what is the optimum hours/days I should look to do? Does it work better to work less days and more hours, or doesn't it matter?
Child tax credit - is this something we would be entitled to - and can anyone advise next steps with this?
Working tax credit - I'm planning to go back to self employed work pretty quickly, would I be entitled to this?
Childcare tax credit - And our child would go into nursery 2 or 3 half days a week - would we get support with this?
Or if this isn't an option, could my husband get Childcare Vouchers?
Lastly, I've read about shared paternity - if my husband wanted to take more than two weeks off work, could he do this and have some of my maternity leave (although do I technically not get this because I am self employed?).
Sorry for sounding stupid, and I have tried to research this, but have made so many phone calls and been passed between so many people and businesses, I am at a loss!
Any advise would be fantastic x
Sorry if I come across stupid, but have got a bit lost in minefield of what benefits I can and can't claim and thought someone in a similar situation maybe able to help.
I am self employed and pay my own tax and NI.
I work roughly 40 hours a week over 5 days.
My earnings after tax and deductions is around £15-20k - but my average flies up and down depending on the work.
My husband is emplyeed full time on a salary of £35k
We are expecting our first baby on the 20th June 2013.
A month after the baby is born, my husband will continue his job, and I plan to work roughly 3 half days a week. My earning maybe anywhere between £5-10k a year after tax and deductions - but due to the nature of my job one week I might earn £300, the next £1000.
I am aware that I can't claim Statutory Maternity Pay, but I am entitled to Maternity Allowance. I am told that when claiming this, I can work 10 days (doesn't matter if these are for 2 hours or 10 hours), and then I must notify the Job Centre. At which point I could lose it all together, or claim part of it depending on how many hours I work. Does anyone know what is the optimum hours/days I should look to do? Does it work better to work less days and more hours, or doesn't it matter?
Child tax credit - is this something we would be entitled to - and can anyone advise next steps with this?
Working tax credit - I'm planning to go back to self employed work pretty quickly, would I be entitled to this?
Childcare tax credit - And our child would go into nursery 2 or 3 half days a week - would we get support with this?
Or if this isn't an option, could my husband get Childcare Vouchers?
Lastly, I've read about shared paternity - if my husband wanted to take more than two weeks off work, could he do this and have some of my maternity leave (although do I technically not get this because I am self employed?).
Sorry for sounding stupid, and I have tried to research this, but have made so many phone calls and been passed between so many people and businesses, I am at a loss!
Any advise would be fantastic x
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Are you single or married ? Your title doesn't match your post.0
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Your title says single mum is that an error as you question details your husband?:j Trytryagain FLYLADY - SAYE £700 each month Premium Bonds £713 Mortgage Was £100,000@20/6/08 now zilch 21/4/15:beer: WTL - 52 (I'll do it 4 MUM)0
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I apologise, it was a mistake. I am married xxx0
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