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AD today - my experiences

Hi guys,

I am AD today!

It has gone really really quickly.

My experiences so far;

Stepchange have been amazing and have given me free guidance for the last two years (I would like to know how to donate money to them, I may start another thread)

The day in court is over before it starts

I have been incredibly emotional and felt guilty which is now lifting

I thought I had a surplus for an IPA but my OR didn't so I didn't get one

My telephone interview was over in ten mins

My examiner was lovely, not judgemental at all

My partner still loves me

My head hasn't fallen off

My family are still talking to me

The Co-op bank have managed to get buildings and contents insurance from me since opening my cashminder account and I will be going through them for an ISA.
My partner who is not BR is going to move to them from Lloyds

All in all a massive weight lifted, I have saved my page from the register to show my AD

Comments

  • hButterflyH
    hButterflyH Posts: 35 Forumite
    Congratulations and thank you for sharing! I cant wait for this day :)
  • MikeJO
    MikeJO Posts: 374 Forumite
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    Thanks for that unsure....I'm not at all surprised by any of it other than this....
    unsure100 wrote: »
    My head hasn't fallen off....

    ....my head fell off twice in the first month and once in the second :(. What do you suppose I did wrong:think: ?
    Procrastination is my middle name....well it would be if I could be ar**d to contact Deed Poll."
  • fermi
    fermi Posts: 40,542 Forumite
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    Congrats unsure. :) Glad you got there in the end.
    Free/impartial debt advice: National Debtline | StepChange Debt Charity | Find your local CAB

    IVA & fee charging DMP companies: Profits from misery, motivated ONLY by greed
  • Janey51
    Janey51 Posts: 1,195 Forumite
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    That is brilliant news.
    I hope mine goes as smoothly
  • dojoman
    dojoman Posts: 12,027 Forumite
    Well done on your AD, and thanks for updating us, good luck for the future.
    :pB&SC No. 298
    Life`s Tragedy is that we get OLD too soon
    and WISE too late!
  • IF
    IF Posts: 34,349 Forumite
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    Hi unsure100, it is lovely to hear from you and congratulations for your AD too :beer:

    Best wishes
    IF...x


    Congrats.jpg
    "If wishes were horses, then beggars would ride"
  • unsure100
    unsure100 Posts: 174 Forumite
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    Hi unsure100, it is lovely to hear from you and congratulations for your AD too :beer:

    Best wishes
    IF...x


    Congrats.jpg

    Thank you x
  • mum2one
    mum2one Posts: 16,279 Forumite
    Xmas Saver!
    congratulations, heres to the future xx
    xx rip dad... we had our ups and downs but we’re always be family xx
  • doseduk
    doseduk Posts: 92 Forumite
    wonderful news, and a really helpful set of clear and concise key experience points :) thank you for sharing x
  • Congrats! :beer::beer:
    Not quite a newbie as you think ;);) (the member formally known as philnicandamy!)

    FINALLY a qualified CAB debt caseworker 2015..:p
    BSC 58 :D
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