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Just wanted to say............

Six months ago, I was very, very depressed, working in a job I hated, and didn't pay enough to cover my living expenses, let alone my debts. I had come out of a relationship that I thought was real, but sadly was built on lies, and cost me emotionally and financially. The only thing keeping me going was my family, and imminent grandchild, but the money worries were clouding everything, and I had lost all confidence in my ability to do anything. I was beginning to think that I'd be better off dead. Then I found MSE, and more specifically, DFW. Things became clearer. I started to have hope. The last six months haven't been plain sailing by any means, but I realised yesterday, having posted about the success I have had with a self-managed DMP, and seeng the total go down, I am SO much better off now, in every way. I am temping in one job, but it pays well and I have had full time work since giving up the horrid job in November, I have a second job that should begin to pay dividends soon, I feel much more in control, and my confidence is coming back. I'm still lonely, but that will sort itself in time. Most important, I'm still HERE. So HUGE thanks to all of you on DFW. You will never know how much you have helped me. :beer:
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  • dizzy_lizzie
    dizzy_lizzie Posts: 2,952 Forumite
    Hi joeblack066 I don't think our paths have crossed but wanted to say that was lovely what you said. So glad things are looking up for you. All the best. Oh and cheers too!!! :beer:
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  • itsarichmansworld
    itsarichmansworld Posts: 1,484 Forumite
    Hi Joe

    I remember your story back then glad things are looking up

    remember if you need anything we're always here :D
    Isn't the knowledge that comes from experience more valuable than the knowledge that doesn't?
  • Tashja
    Tashja Posts: 1,215 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hi Joe

    So happy you are feeling happier.

    Keep marching on and things should just keep getting better !!!

    T xx
  • LookingAhead
    LookingAhead Posts: 4,633 Forumite
    Bless you joe. Really glad things are on the up for you.

    :)
    Bank Balance: In the black for the moment.
    Sainsburys Loan: Cleared July 2010
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  • GirlRacer_2
    GirlRacer_2 Posts: 3,026 Forumite
    Well done Joe on turning your life around and feeling more positive about things
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    Hi Joe so glad you are feeling better
  • danielleindebt
    danielleindebt Posts: 201 Forumite
    im new but i just wanted to say u are an inspiration to people when they feel all is lost. you prove that it can be done.

    glad things are better for you.
  • smashedbooboo
    smashedbooboo Posts: 4,558 Forumite
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    well done joe. So pleased to hear your on the up now. You hit as low as you could go. So keep climbing that ladder. And dont forget if one or two rungs break on the way up they can always be repaired. Big hugs to you hun. Take care. xxxxxxxxxxx
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  • Bunnyinthelights
    Bunnyinthelights Posts: 15,278 Forumite
    Well done Joe,
    My feeling are echoed by your own, I would not have made it thru a very dark period in my life without this site.
    Keep on moving up!

    Bunny
    Empty pockets never held anyone back, only empty heads and empty hearts can do that -Peale
  • joeblack066
    joeblack066 Posts: 1,757 Forumite
    Thanks all, we will do this together.
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