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3Dogs

FunkyFeet wrote: »

3 dogs u practically have me in tears, :(:( like seriously. My mum talks to my gran who passed away many yrs ago...amazing lady she was. I'll confess, so do I, she just was that amazing a person, cannot forget her

Like to think she can see me, see what I'm doing and feel proud of me...maybe she can't but hope there is a higher being just for this reason.

Oh gosh look at what u did there, I crack silly jokes on here and be dizzy blondie me, but u made me all:( Must say though I feel how u feel him...can feel it in your words, you are amazingly strong, I admire you:A

Arh shucks FF thank you My problem, and what gets me really depressed when I am back home and not with my family/friends is that I can't 'feel Mr 3Dogs with me' and I feel cheated about it People say that they feel their lost ones with them, but I don't Sorry if upsetting people, but when he passed away in the hospital it was like someone flicked a switch and he was gone. I didn't even stay with him for too long as 'he just wasn't there any more' and a big hole opened up in me I had a discussion about heaven and hell with friends, who said he is up there watching me, but I can't accept a 'heaven' as it is not logical. I mean, say you lost a child, but you lived till you were old, you would be old but they would still be young? Or you lost a spouse, but later married again, would you end up in heaven with both of them? Tricky situation :eek: :eek: Trying to be light-hearted about it, as ever, but ................... actually, must be getting better at this, because, though my eyes are definitely moist, no tears have appeared and I am actually smiling as I type

QPR10 wrote: »

If you've lost someone this will make you cry but in a nice way

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yYHT-TF4KO4

Goodnight all

You know, I heard this song the other day, by 1D, and loved it ..... I surprised myself :eek: They are my 7 year old great-niece's favourite

Loved the other link, thank you. I love the story-telling of country music :T

blondynurse wrote: »

3DOGS
sending you big squeezy cuddles hun xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

You too hun. Good luck. Thinking of you :A

3Dogs

Oops, where did everyone go? Did I frighten them off?

Curlytop_2

3Dogs wrote: »

Glad he got through Christmas OK as been thinking about him and you



Mr 3Dogs' ashes are still at the funeral directors I am not sure yet what to do with them. I know that I don't want them at the local crem, as I would hope to move back up home/North at some point and I wouldn't want to leave him down here Will probably scatter them off North Shields/Tynemouth pier

It took me 2 years to scatter my husband's ashes. When we felt we were ready (our children and me, his brothers and their kids) we got together for a weekend at his childhood town, and at midnight on his birthday we went down to the beach and scattered the ashes on the breaking waves. It wasn't easy to say goodbye (I had to have several whiskeys beforehand!) but when woke up in the morning there was a tremendous sense of relief - and release. You will know when the time is right. xx

FloFlo

3Dogs wrote: »

Glad he got through Christmas OK as been thinking about him and you



Mr 3Dogs' ashes are still at the funeral directors I am not sure yet what to do with them. I know that I don't want them at the local crem, as I would hope to move back up home/North at some point and I wouldn't want to leave him down here Will probably scatter them off North Shields/Tynemouth pier

My mum had made a funeral plan so we just followed that. Whatever decision you make will be the right one. xxx

FloFlo

3Dogs wrote: »

Oops, where did everyone go? Did I frighten them off?

I'm watching 'Mount Pleasant' on the last episode of the series, been watching them all in one sitting on Sky demand. Really enjoyed it, Bobby Ball is good in it.

3Dogs

Curlytop wrote: »

It took me 2 years to scatter my husband's ashes. When we felt we were ready (our children and me, his brothers and their kids) we got together for a weekend at his childhood town, and at midnight on his birthday we went down to the beach and scattered the ashes on the breaking waves. It wasn't easy to say goodbye (I had to have several whiskeys beforehand!) but when woke up in the morning there was a tremendous sense of relief - and release. You will know when the time is right. xx

Thanks for that lovely post Curlytop :T Beautiful :T

FloFlo wrote: »

My mum had made a funeral plan so we just followed that. Whatever decision you make will be the right one. xxx

Thanks FloFlo :A

FloFlo wrote: »

I'm watching 'Mount Pleasant' on the last episode of the series, been watching them all in one sitting on Sky demand. Really enjoyed it, Bobby Ball is good in it.

Never seen it, but not fussed on Bobby Ball so that might be why :rotfl:Enjoy

3Dogs

On that note, I have found myself watching much more tv since I got rid of Sky :eek: I watched Impact and Matrix last night, seen them both before but still enjoyed, and I watched the new Person of Interest on ch 5 tonight, which was ok and will watch to see how it developes before I make a decision on it At least I still have my fall-back channel of Sky News, which I have on most of the time

French_Knickers

French_Knickers wrote: »

Evening everyone. Not had chance to catch up today so not sure what I've missed.

Huge big snuggly hugs to anyone who needs one....or just wants one to make them feel better!

Gonna curl up in bed with the lappy and a film I think. 'Deja Vu' again..........(denzel washington)

Good film. I might watch it again....................

French_Knickers

................ and again

French_Knickers

right, who is still up?