OR ...do they watch you ???

desperate_mum_3

I have been warned by a friend that the OR send people to sneak on you ? I am not hiding anything but am worried as my daughter has just left her boyfriend and is staying here till she gets herself sorted ,she is still tied to her flat financially so she can't give me any money and to be honest i wouldn't take it because of the state she is in and i'm her mum but should i tell the OR ? having interview next week ..:rolleyes:

Bakeybadoo

If she is dependent on you, financially anyway which it seems she is then I'd tell them.

Infact, I'd tell the OR anyway, if it's not of any interest to them, at least you've covered yourself.

scubaleopard

Who are OR

Bakeybadoo

Official Receiver. The person who is put in charge of investigating the reasons behind your debts and BR and who is put in charge of your assets after BR.

desperate_mum_3

Yeah that was my first thought too .... so nice not to have no worries I don't want to start building them up again .... kids love them to death but what a pain hahaahaa

Bakeybadoo

:rotfl:

As fast as you cut those apron strings, they are retying them!

fermi

desperate_mum wrote: »

I have been warned by a friend that the OR send people to sneak on you ?

Only if they think you are hiding a Ferrari in your garage.

But seriously, in 99% of cases the relationship between the OR and yourself will be based upon trust.

I don't suppose the OR would care about your daughter staying, but may consider it a valid reason your outgoings are higher. I short, I don't think it would do any harm to tell them, and it would give you peace of mind if you are worried about it.

desperate_mum_3

I know .. just when i finally think my life is getting sorted .... only joking i love her to bits and its quite nice having her here but it is only day 3 !!!!