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Present for my brother and sister-in-law

pancakebuzz
pancakebuzz Posts: 17 Forumite
The only thing they will admit to wanting is a coffee maker, and my parents already got that...

I have no idea how to shop for a couple. They've only been married for a little over a year and I'm already out of ideas (for their anniversary I resorted to buying them meat. Like, two chicken breasts, a couple of pork chops, some kabobs...). If it were just one or the other I could do it, but picking something they'll both like is tricky. They really don't have a lot of extra room in their apartment either, so I don't want to buy them anything that'll take up needed space, especially since they've got a baby on the way.
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  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,884 Forumite
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    You don't have to get a joint present for them. I get mine seperate gifts most years.
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

    I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
    Diana Gabaldon, Outlander
  • You don't have to get a joint present for them. I get mine seperate gifts most years.

    I suppose I don't have to, it just seems like other people are...It might be a good cycle to break, though, so I'm not stuck like this every year.
  • Torry_Quine
    Torry_Quine Posts: 18,884 Forumite
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    I suppose I don't have to, it just seems like other people are...It might be a good cycle to break, though, so I'm stuck like this every year.

    I can't remember the last time I got a joint gift to me and my husband from anyone at Christmas.
    Lost my soulmate so life is empty.

    I can bear pain myself, he said softly, but I couldna bear yours. That would take more strength than I have -
    Diana Gabaldon, Outlander
  • Maysie
    Maysie Posts: 2,379 Forumite
    How about some really nice coffee for their machine. Whittards can grind beans up for you. There are lots of specialised places about as well. If they have a sweet tooth you could make some gingerbread latte syrup as well i posted a reciepe a few years ago now on here ;) its so easy to make.
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/2155843
  • weeclick
    weeclick Posts: 1,051 Forumite
    You could always make them a coffee hamper? So coffee pods for the machine, nice set of mugs, chocolate, biscuits etc I am making my sister and her boyfriend a hamper and they love it!
    Life is what you make it.
  • Zimm190
    Zimm190 Posts: 182 Forumite
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    I was going to suggest nice coffee too, or some coffee cups; my brother and my husband's brother are both into their coffee at the minute so we've got them two Le Creuset espresso cups each (£6.38 each on Amazon). There is a lovely indie coffee place in town and I get 250g of beans freshly ground for all my coffee-fiend friends (and me).
  • spam88
    spam88 Posts: 71 Forumite
    I've done a hamper for my brother and sister-in-law for the last few years - it's quite nice now as they know they're going to get one and my sister-in-law gets quite excited about seeing what's in it lol. Sometimes I just do a general Christmassy hamper (Christmas pudding, chocolates, alcohol, literally any other Christmassy treats I come across). One year I did them a tea hamper as they both love their tea - this included a tea pot, a few packets of teapigs and some shortbread. You can also do themed hampers, so maybe a sweet hamper, or American hamper, or occasionally I've done hampers with nice flavoured oils and vinegars, sundried tomatoes and olives for some other people. You could also do a hamper with the ingredients to cook a certain cuisine? And maybe include any special dishes they may need.

    I always think hampers are a lovely gift to give people who don't really need/want anything in particular, as it means they can indulge a little :) And once they've eaten it all, it won't take up any space!
  • Meadows
    Meadows Posts: 4,530 Forumite
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    The only thing they will admit to wanting is a coffee maker, and my parents already got that...
    I have no idea how to shop for a couple. They've only been married for a little over a year and I'm already out of ideas (for their anniversary I resorted to buying them meat. Like, two chicken breasts, a couple of pork chops, some kabobs...). If it were just one or the other I could do it, but picking something they'll both like is tricky. They really don't have a lot of extra room in their apartment either, so I don't want to buy them anything that'll take up needed space, especially since they've got a baby on the way.


    Why not make up a hamper that includes foods they either like individually or together and then they can both eat/drink what they like. Home made chocolates, wine, biscuits, cakes, pickles, luxury sliced meats, cheeses, cheese biscuits, dried fruit, Nuts etc. A nice basket can then be used for the baby toys later.
    Everything has its beauty but not everyone sees it.
  • Some sort of hamper/basket involving coffee sounds like a great idea! I saw some really cute snowman-hat baskets the other day to. I could put some nuts in it, maybe, and some bath balm for Jenny...

    Thanks everyone!
  • weeclick
    weeclick Posts: 1,051 Forumite
    Some sort of hamper/basket involving coffee sounds like a great idea! I saw some really cute snowman-hat baskets the other day to. I could put some nuts in it, maybe, and some bath balm for Jenny...

    Thanks everyone!

    Glad you got something sorted - check on google see if you have a local cash and carry for the public, I have one near me for florists but open to the public and pick up a massive hamper for £4 and a decent sized one for about £2!!
    Life is what you make it.
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