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my journey to become a yummy mummy

My old diary under my old username has floundered and needs jazzing up a bit. The main reason behind this is because my life has changed an awful lot during the previous few months.

Firstly, I finally moved in with my OH. It took a while for me to do this because I enjoyed living on my own a tad too much. Don't get me wrong - I do enjoy living in sin but part of me yearns for the days when I stayed in my PJs all day, didn't bother to brush my hair and ordered incredibly unhealthy food for tea. The remote control was mine and mine alone and I didn't give two hoots about leaving the washing-up until the following day.

Those days will never return as I am now pregnant. To say that this was a surprise is an understatement! We do want the little 'un but we thought that it would take a year or so to happen and not on the first try. We are very excited but I will feel happier and more confident once I have had the first scan and can see for myself that I have a teeny tiny little un growing and developing healthy inside my internal incubator. Right now, my little lentil is making its presence known as I am uber tired all of the time, constantly need to pee and am feeling bloated.

Anyway, the purpose of my diary is to save as much money as I can. I do have a secret bank loan which I am steadily paying off. I was in a position to overpay but that plan has gone onto the back burner as I need to put away as much as I can for when I am on maternity. I will get maternity pay but it is peanuts so the more I can save, the better.

My current goal is to have £1000 saved before the end of the year. I will do my internet banking in a min and see how much I currently have. It isn't much but it is a start.

I also need to learn how to be a yummy mummy. I may work with children but I get to hand them back at the end of the day. The bits involving crying, nappies, projectile vomitting are completely alien to me!

Comments

  • Hi!
    I worked with Children prior to being a mummy and it mostly comes naturally! It helped that I worked with the under 5s! Nappies are easy once you know how and dnt worry not all babies projectile vomit :)
    Good Luck with your savings! My advice would be when buying for your little one you can get bargain equipment/clothes next to nothing on ebay/preloved/facebook! I could have got a fantastic travel system for less than I payed for my full price one! If only I knew!
    Hope I helped :)
  • Hi!
    I worked with Children prior to being a mummy and it mostly comes naturally! It helped that I worked with the under 5s! Nappies are easy once you know how and dnt worry not all babies projectile vomit :)
    Good Luck with your savings! My advice would be when buying for your little one you can get bargain equipment/clothes next to nothing on ebay/preloved/facebook! I could have got a fantastic travel system for less than I payed for my full price one! If only I knew!
    Hope I helped :)

    thanks :) Now, I work with the much older ones! We are not getting anything baby related until we are far gone. I just don't want to tempt anything. Will defo go down the ebay route as they grow so fast.
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