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ZTD

lennymfo wrote: »

In fact, zee burm is the first thing I look for.

Ah, no - not me.

I look for integrity, intelligence and a GSOH - personality in short. After that it's all just icing on the cake.

lynsayjane

lennymfo wrote: »

Good girl. Not that there would be anything wrong with that of course.

to each their own len, there was a teim when I'd take a guy home wihtout even knowing his second name, but i found that a very shallow and unfulfilling life, I want someone who actually wants me and not just my body if you see what i mean. i don't mean it has to be the one but i'm tired of not having someone.

lynsayjane

ZTD wrote: »

Ah, no - not me.

I look for integrity, intelligence and a GSOH - personality in short. After that it's all just icing on the cake.

ah but if you are out and meet a girl it's nto her personality that you notice is it?

I have to admit I can be quite vain. I notice guys for looks then find out they are a$$hole$ afterwards. but then I met an ex online and he wasn't pretty and still was a bit of an a$$hole too....

ZTD

lynsayjane wrote: »

to each their own len, there was a teim when I'd take a guy home wihtout even knowing his second name, but i found that a very shallow and unfulfilling life, I want someone who actually wants me and not just my body if you see what i mean. i don't mean it has to be the one but i'm tired of not having someone.

So now that you've changed your taste in men, have you changed where you look for them?

System

lynsayjane wrote: »

to each their own len, there was a teim when I'd take a guy home wihtout even knowing his second name, but i found that a very shallow and unfulfilling life, I want someone who actually wants me and not just my body if you see what i mean. i don't mean it has to be the one but i'm tired of not having someone.

I know what you mean.
'I dont mind spending every day
Out on your corner in the pouring rain
Look for the girl with the broken smile
Ask her if she wants to stay a while,
She will be loved.......'

And you will be I'm sure:iloveyou:

System

ZTD wrote: »

Ah, no - not me.

I look for integrity, intelligence and a GSOH - personality in short. After that it's all just icing on the cake.

Complete opposite for me!

ZTD

lynsayjane wrote: »

ah but if you are out and meet a girl it's nto her personality that you notice is it?

Yep. Mostly the sense of humour. Which then leads into how bright they are (I'm a snob I can't abide stupid people), which later leads into what kind of person they are, and how they think.

Probably all the lurkers are going "Yeah! Yeah!" but it's true...

lynsayjane wrote: »

I have to admit I can be quite vain. I notice guys for looks then find out they are a$$hole$ afterwards. but then I met an ex online and he wasn't pretty and still was a bit of an a$$hole too....

So make your first job the arrsehole detection.

System

ZTD wrote: »

So make your first job the arrsehole detection.

This could go downhill again!

lynsayjane

ZTD wrote: »

So now that you've changed your taste in men, have you changed where you look for them?

well now that I don't get out in town that much anymore then yes, it's strange, when i was fatter and less self confident, though oddly happier not worrying about money etc all the bl00dy time, i never had any problem meeting guys, now, I almost feel like I'm stuck on a planet of women...


lord only knows where i'm going wrong, but i reckon i need to ge tmy head sorted out first. if i'm not happy by myself then i'll never be happy wiht anyone else in my life.

ZTD

lennymfo wrote: »

This could go downhill again!

You know what I meant.

She'd get no one if that was the first thing she probed for... :eek: :rolleyes: