BR Possibility & A Few Questions

FavDaughter1

Hi, i've not posted for ages. we did a Full & Final IVA with help from my parents,(we are in the process of repaying them),i still sometimes wonder if we should have gone BR. it's v hard.

the stage you're at is frightening but you will get there - so good you have family support - talk to them!!!! I felt so vulerable(i'm disabled),so ashamed.

you will get this sorted out. if my husband get's in a mess again(happened before this time)i've told him i will go BR. the biggest thing is deciding what you want to do. i couldn't sleep,felt sick,had upset tummy - lost lots of weight,panic attacks etc. it was awful but things are better now. hang in there - you're not alone x

Lou67

debtinfo wrote: »

Beware of advice by PM if it is unsolicited

OBVIOUSLY aimed at me. FYI, the poster in question, (who I sent a PM too,) actually PM'd me FIRST, asking me some questions, before I sent them a PM.

I told them on here that I had sent one, so they didn't think I was ignoring them on here and so they could look out for my PM.

AND. I chose to send the reply only through PM, (and not on here,) as there was some personal information about me in the reply, that I am not prepared to share on here with everyone.

So I did not send an 'unsolicited' PM to the poster, and the help I gave was much appreciated by them.

debtinfo

That's fine. That is why I only said to beware of unsolicited PM's rather than all PM's

Lou67

debtinfo wrote: »

That's fine. That is why I only said to beware of unsolicited PM's rather than all PM's

OK, thanks D.I.. Didn't mean to come across so sharp; I just felt like it was a direct attack against me. The poster did message me first though, and I just wanted to make that clear. A case of crossed wires...