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in so much trouble i duno wat to do :(:(:(:(:(

me and my husband managed to pay off all our credit cards apart from 1 last year so when we got into difficulty due to our daughter bein born 10 weeks premature and him having to take time of work, we took a payday loan. of course we didnt listen to anyone who said it was a bad idea. then took another to pay that one off. ended up with a second one, so took a third to pay both of them of but ended up keepin all 3 an so on. u can guess the rest. were screwed excuse my choice of words but im ready to climb on to me rooftop and scream. as it stands were 1000 quid short for the end of this month alone an i cant figure out wat were gonna do. anyone else been in a similar situation and how did you get outta it besides jumpin in front of a lorry.

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  • Hi and welcome maybe do a statement of affairs and then we can see if any cuts can be made also list all the pay day loans and how much you owe to each dont worry help is at hand
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  • Hi :D I agree with Happytogetdebtfree. Don't panic just yet!! Post an SOA and we'll help you try to cut down your monthly outgoings.
    Wealth is what you're left with when all your money runs out
  • Hi dais-y-duck :hello:

    Every debt has a solution and that includes yours.

    My advice would be to phone CCCS for a non-judgemental and free service

    "Helpline

    Our FREEPHONE helpline is open from 8am-8pm Mon-Fri and 9am-3pm Sat. All calls from mobiles are FREE.
    0800 138 1111"


    Good luck and please let us know how you get on :)
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    :staradmin:starmod::staradmin Debt free 17th April 2015 :staradmin:starmod::staradmin
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  • Our outgoings are as follows.
    Mortgage £299
    Rates £88.78
    House and life insurance £40
    My husband work insurance plan £33
    Internet £10
    My daughters savings £25
    Sky digital £40 (were tied in til December)
    Pounds to pocket loan £180
    Lending stream loan £80

    Then my mother and law gets £120 a month as she puts some bills on her credit card for us.
    Provident gets £105

    Electric is £80 a month
    £200 for diesel
    £250 for food
    £80 for oil (we can only afford to buy drums at the min)

    My husband gets roughly between £900 and £1100 a month. He does shift work an depends on his shifts.
    We also get £134 child benefit a month
    And £656 tax credits a month so in total we have £1790
    And ive worked it out we roughly hav £160 left.

    Now, what we owe.
    Ulster bank credit card, the only one remaining is at £700, limit is £625
    Payday uk (payday loan) £380
    Quickquid £400
    Wonga £730
    Moneyshop £100
    Cheque centre £80
    £1690 of that (the pay day loans) has to come out at the end of this month out of the £180 quid we got left. They’ve already been extended.
    Husbands plan is to pay off wonga then borrow it all again to pay the bills. It’s a vicious circle. I hope ive done that right and not left anything out
  • Phone CCCS on 0800 138 1111

    Or if you don't want to phone, use their online debt remedy

    https://debtremedy.cccs.co.uk/start.aspx

    You need a new basic bank account as soon as possible which is not associated with any of your debts for your husband's wages and your benefits to go into. The Co-Op is very good but there are others which CCCS will be able to advise you on.
    LBM 10/1/12 ~ DFW Start 6/2/12: £82,344 ~ Now Zero
    :staradmin:starmod::staradmin Debt free 17th April 2015 :staradmin:starmod::staradmin
    Eternal thanks to the DMP & Mutual Support (no.439) and Payment a Day Threads
    Mortgage free 3rd July 2014 - Grateful thanks to the 2013/14 MFW threads
    "Debt is normal. Be weird!" Dave Ramsey
    Proud to have dealt with our debt :)
  • ladybez
    ladybez Posts: 474 Forumite
    Welcome to the Boards and forget the idea of jumping under a lorry, you have a little one who needs you!!
    As Time to Face the Music says, you need to open a BASIC bank account with a bank you do not owe anything to, arrange to have wages and benefits paid into it. That puts you in control.
    Then pay mortgage, rates, fuel, food and insurances. Contact SKY and tell them you are having difficulties and see if they will reduce the package if you cannot cancel it yet. In writing, contact ALL the companies you owe money to and tell them you are having difficulties.
    In the meantime contact CCCS or do the online remedy thing.
    You will get plenty of support and advice on here. Good luck.
  • katy_ann
    katy_ann Posts: 1,094 Forumite
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    Hi I agree with the others CCCS have been brilliant, I cant reccomend them enough :) Good luck with everything x
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