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I'm dragging us down :(

When I met my OH he had a DMP in place and was upfront with me about his debts from the start.

The DMP finished last year, and his only default is due to drop off in the next few months.

We've talked about buying a house, but his adverse credit has always been in the way, now he's all paid off, and the final black mark is due to come off we're finally in a position to get moving forward.

However, I now have a lot of debt of my own. It's manageable, but it's getting me down because we should be starting fresh and saving, but instead we're going to have to clear my mess up first.

I should've worked harder on sorting myself out, but spent my time writing to OH's creditors and improving his credit.

My credit is fine, but I feel the amount of debt I have is going to restrict what we can borrow on a mortgage and I keep burying my head in the sand about it.

As his default date approaches, I know it's time I tried to clear my rubbish. But I just don't know where to start :(

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