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problems with debt, keeping car running and being pregnant please help advice please

delta4
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Well I owe money second time due to my sillyness with buying my ex stuff and now I am the one left with no money. I work as cabin crew but I am pregnant I only get 572 per month 184 goes to Credit union for loan I have left to pay 2900 743 in savings probably be 780 next week when we get paid. I have a car on finance and pay 151 pm have left probably 1800 on that and I pay 135 a month insurance.
I am due 95 tax disc next week, MOT and car needs new tyres and new brakes and other bits estimated cost is 550. I get paid 572 and have to pay 239 insurance or I break my agreement. I am thinking of asking my cousin to lend me 800 o pay car and tax disc and have some money for petrol. Or do I take car of the road and just have 120 to pay for bus for the month to heathrow where I work on the ground. I have to get a bus, train, another bus without a car just to get to work. I am so arghh just wondering what do to my cousin might not that the money.
I intend on getting a part time job too to pay back. What would you guys do?
Take care off road, or borrow more money. baby is due in Feb and even though I am now on my own I am happy and I am excited apart from the finance.
Also, another ex from many years ago wa in touch and he owns his own house etc. I even had a tought just to meet him but remembered why we split and was a silly moment.
I owe in total probably 11k. I am getting help for that. Just worried about the car and how to get by the next month. Any money expert advice?
I am due 95 tax disc next week, MOT and car needs new tyres and new brakes and other bits estimated cost is 550. I get paid 572 and have to pay 239 insurance or I break my agreement. I am thinking of asking my cousin to lend me 800 o pay car and tax disc and have some money for petrol. Or do I take car of the road and just have 120 to pay for bus for the month to heathrow where I work on the ground. I have to get a bus, train, another bus without a car just to get to work. I am so arghh just wondering what do to my cousin might not that the money.
I intend on getting a part time job too to pay back. What would you guys do?
Take care off road, or borrow more money. baby is due in Feb and even though I am now on my own I am happy and I am excited apart from the finance.
Also, another ex from many years ago wa in touch and he owns his own house etc. I even had a tought just to meet him but remembered why we split and was a silly moment.

I owe in total probably 11k. I am getting help for that. Just worried about the car and how to get by the next month. Any money expert advice?
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why can't you use the money you have in savings for the car stuff?
Your car insurance is astronomical - can you downgrade the car? You just aren't going to be able to meet your outgoings with what's coming in and looks like u can't afford to run a car even if you find money to get all the bits fixed.Is there anyone at work you can get a life with and pay half the petrol? have a look at liftshare schemes as well. may be cheaper than the bus.
Good luck with the pg - glad you're happy about that. You should do a SOA - its much easier to see where u stand and people will be able to advise better.0 -
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Do a proper SOA and people will be better able to help you with your situation.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0 -
lemoncheesecake wrote: »why can't you use the money you have in savings for the car stuff?
Your car insurance is astronomical - can you downgrade the car? You just aren't going to be able to meet your outgoings with what's coming in and looks like u can't afford to run a car even if you find money to get all the bits fixed.Is there anyone at work you can get a life with and pay half the petrol? have a look at liftshare schemes as well. may be cheaper than the bus.
Good luck with the pg - glad you're happy about that. You should do a SOA - its much easier to see where u stand and people will be able to advise better.
Thank you for response. I can't use savings because it is alongside loan with credit union at work and I cannot touch it until I cleared the loan, it stands at 2900.
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Please what is a SOA? Sorry.0
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Here http://www.stoozing.com/msoc/soacalc.php
Allows you to work out your budget.
Format for MSE and remove the link at the bottom if you have trouble posting it up.If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing0 -
Its statement of affairs, i'm sure some nice person will post a link to one soon. (someone already did lol)
It basically breaks down everything that comes in, and everything that goes out, including all debts
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