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  • Warriorsith
    Warriorsith Posts: 441 Forumite
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    I know provident can be paid off early, the APR is already included, so we don't really save any as it's a set thing, ie borrow £1k repay £1650 no matter what. Blackheath is set to, thing is that it has a guarentor attached to that and if OH does'nt pay the then guarentor has to.

    When you go for an IVA does ALL the creditors you owe money to have to be included in it? Meaning if OH gets on IVA can she have Provident/Welcome/ Blackheath/Nat West only or will Oh have to have Nursery/Family on it too?
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 97,443 Ambassador
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    Does your OH still use the nursery that she has the arrears with?
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  • beanielou wrote: »
    Does your OH still use the nursery that she has the arrears with?

    Yes she does.
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  • mo1_2
    mo1_2 Posts: 350 Forumite
    make sure you pay your essential things first,i.e rent poll tax electric and gas.provident can wait,i used to know someone who worked for them collecting,and if she was offered say £2.00 instead off what she normally got from the customer she was quite happy,as long as she was collecting something off them,so try and pay them less for a few weeks and catch up on your poll tax
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 97,443 Ambassador
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    As your OH still using nursery it is very unlikely that nursery could be included as a creditor.
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

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  • Hi

    i just wanted to say that you (and your OH) need to stop worrying about the impact of an IVA or DMP on your credit rating(s).

    Your credit ratings are probably shot to pieces anyway but even if they aren't you both need to stop relying on credit to live- easy to say and not so easy to do i know but you will never be debt free if you don't adjust your thinking.

    Good luck with your current situation.:o

    WifeofDJFLP
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