How do you get out of this mess

Morris_mouse

This is my first time on the forums, don't really know what to say, i think i am just realizing how in debt we are, can't sleep feel shaky everytime a car goes past or there is a knock on the door, still can't get to that final stage af fully admitting that we are in a mess.

Does anyone out there have any advice

ifstar

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=107280

Follow the above links and post up your SOA, from there people will be able to give you advice on how you can save some money.

The best thing is that you have realised there is a problem and are trying to deal with it rather than trying to ignore it. Once you have it all written done and in front of you, it makes it easier to plan what you are going to do.

SSB

Hi:hello:

Welcome to the site. If you read posts other people have sent, you soon realise that all sorts of individuals participate here. We are here to offer support, not to judge you and all situations are covered. You are not the only one who feels lonely, confused and stuck. Post your SOA, once there is a clear plan of action you will feel more optimistic and in control.

All the best.

daysieblue

Congratualtions Being here is the first step, and that can often be the hardest.

Just like the others have said, post an SOA, and then others with more knowledge than me can help.

db xx

amani_2

I also want to say welcome and as the others said post your SOA.

dancingfairy

Look at this thread. Moozie was scared to begin with and now she's a site stalwart and according to her signature is looking forward to being debt free later this year.

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?t=154168&highlight=scared

Valley's_girl

Welcome mm you will get great advice here!
Aly x

SunderlandBlackCat

Hi Morris & welcome to the site.

We're all anonymous so you can tell us anything & don't be worried about being judged. The reason for getting into debt doesn't matter, this sites all about getting out of debt not how you got into it.

anniestar

Welcome like the op's have said just comming on here is a HUGE step. You will get advice, frendship and support on here. You are not on your own on this.

clarab_3

welcome! you can tell us as much or as little as you like - we dont know you and we wont judge... promise!

We've all been there, 3 months ago I was close to losing my home and couldnt sleep. What a difference it makes to get a good nights sleep!