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Seen the light

Have been lurking on this part of the boards for a while, I didn't want to admit to myself that we had problems, but with the help I got from reading all the different threads I finally was able to admit to myself that we needed help.

I took the first step today and rang Payplan, it didnt go as bad as I thought the girl who I spoke to didnt judge me and was really nice.

I have a few things I have to find for them when they call back on Monday:

SOA
Acc numbers - excact amounts ect

I'm on track with my main bills, rent, council tax ect, I'm just at the beginning of problems with loans, CC,and the dreaded payday loans. Finally got my head out of the sand and I'm going to get myself debt free!
~ LBM - July 2012 ~

Debts: Barclays OD: £1120.00 | Barclays Loans: £1473.00 | Credit Cards:£5540.00 | Catalogues:£4800.00 | Payday Loans: £2715.00 | Family Loan: £5000.00
Total Debts July 2012 £20,648.00 :eek:
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  • Well done mawey on your LBM and taking the first steps to becoming debt free :T
    LBM 10/1/12 ~ DFW Start 6/2/12: £82,344 ~ Now Zero
    :staradmin:starmod::staradmin Debt free 17th April 2015 :staradmin:starmod::staradmin
    Eternal thanks to the DMP & Mutual Support (no.439) and Payment a Day Threads
    Mortgage free 3rd July 2014 - Grateful thanks to the 2013/14 MFW threads
    "Debt is normal. Be weird!" Dave Ramsey
    Proud to have dealt with our debt :)
  • lesgeo2012
    lesgeo2012 Posts: 110 Forumite
    Good luck, you will find loads of good advice on this site. You will feel a burden off your shoulders in no time! I know I feel better and I have just started my debt free journey too!
    Waste not, want not!
    Slow and steady wins the race!
  • bexiboo92
    bexiboo92 Posts: 348 Forumite
    Well done on your LBM! And good luck :)

    I'm on the same journey with pay day loans, so any time you need a chat just PM me :) x
  • letmefree
    letmefree Posts: 173 Forumite
    Good luck mawey.
    Keep at it and you will get there.
    Feb £22,608, Weight 18st, 2 x cards, 2 x loans.
  • mawey
    mawey Posts: 91 Forumite
    Any comments on my soa would be great, need all the help I can get:

    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

    Household Information

    Number of adults in household........... 2
    Number of children in household......... 1
    Number of cars owned.................... 1

    Monthly Income Details

    Monthly income after tax................ 1500
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 900
    Benefits................................ 0
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 2400


    Monthly Expense Details

    Mortgage................................ 0
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 650
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 116
    Electricity............................. 80
    Gas..................................... 80
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 57
    Telephone (land line)................... 24
    Mobile phone............................ 0
    TV Licence.............................. 12
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 24
    Internet Services....................... 24
    Groceries etc. ......................... 350
    Clothing................................ 150
    Petrol/diesel........................... 130
    Road tax................................ 30
    Car Insurance........................... 70
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 40
    Car parking............................. 10
    Other travel............................ 10
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 200
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 25
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 20
    Buildings insurance..................... 0
    Contents insurance...................... 25
    Life assurance ......................... 0
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 10
    Haircuts................................ 20
    Entertainment........................... 20
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 50
    Total monthly expenses.................. 2227



    Assets

    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 0
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 1000
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 1000


    No Secured nor Hire Purchase Debts


    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Barclay Loan 1.................779.......81........19.9
    Barclays Loan 2................625.......72........19.9
    Tesco Credit Card .............600.......20........19.9
    RBS Credit Card................3600......0.........19.9
    Lending stream ................754.......0.........200
    Pounds to pocket ..............450.......0.........200
    Payday UK......................130.......0.........200
    Wonga .........................1380......0.........200
    K and co Catalogue ............814.93....39........19.9
    K and co Catalogue ............3984.8....84........19.9
    Barclays Overdraft ............1120......0.........0
    Orange Credit Card ............1000......36........19.9
    Barclay Card ..................320.......16........19.9
    Total unsecured debts..........15557.73..348.......-



    Monthly Budget Summary

    Total monthly income.................... 2,400
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 2,227
    Available for debt repayments........... 173
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 348
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -175


    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 1,000
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -0
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -15,557.73
    Net Assets.............................. -14,557.73


    Created using the SOA calculator at www.makesenseofcards.com.
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using Firefox browser.
    ~ LBM - July 2012 ~

    Debts: Barclays OD: £1120.00 | Barclays Loans: £1473.00 | Credit Cards:£5540.00 | Catalogues:£4800.00 | Payday Loans: £2715.00 | Family Loan: £5000.00
    Total Debts July 2012 £20,648.00 :eek:
  • nmh1980
    nmh1980 Posts: 11 Forumite
    How are you paying your 4 payday loans? I am in a similar position to yourself with having loans from Wonga, Lending Stream and Pounds To Pocket. I am struggling to be able to pay my Wonga one back when it is due. The other 2 I can just about afford and I have only 2 months to go for Lending Stream and 6 months to go for Pounds To Pocket.
  • ashleighsalem
    ashleighsalem Posts: 108 Forumite
    edited 13 July 2012 at 4:22PM
    mawey wrote: »
    Any comments on my soa would be great, need all the help I can get:

    Statement of Affairs and Personal Balance Sheet

    Household Information
    Number of adults in household........... 2
    Number of children in household......... 1
    Number of cars owned.................... 1

    Monthly Income Details
    Monthly income after tax................ 1500
    Partners monthly income after tax....... 900
    Benefits................................ 0 cb?
    Other income............................ 0
    Total monthly income.................... 2400

    Monthly Expense Details
    Mortgage................................ 0
    Secured/HP loan repayments.............. 0
    Rent.................................... 650
    Management charge (leasehold property).. 0
    Council tax............................. 116
    Electricity............................. 80 high have you shopped around for a better deal? can you reduce usage?
    Gas..................................... 80 as above
    Oil..................................... 0
    Water rates............................. 57
    Telephone (land line)................... 24
    Mobile phone............................ 0
    TV Licence.............................. 12
    Satellite/Cable TV...................... 24 how much do you consider this a necessity?
    Internet Services....................... 24
    Groceries etc. ......................... 350 can you reduce - are the budget s/markets an option for you
    Clothing................................ 150 this is an obvious area to reduce or are you planning ahead for school uniform
    Petrol/diesel........................... 130
    Road tax................................ 30
    Car Insurance........................... 70
    Car maintenance (including MOT)......... 40
    Car parking............................. 10
    Other travel............................ 10
    Childcare/nursery....................... 0
    Other child related expenses............ 200 how essential are these? I know it's hard to cut back on children's activites, but are they value for money and does your child still enjoy them?
    Medical (prescriptions, dentist etc).... 25
    Pet insurance/vet bills................. 20
    Buildings insurance..................... 0
    Contents insurance...................... 25 can this be reduced - i pay this for buildings and contents and i've seen cheaper
    Life assurance ......................... 0 this maybe something to consider
    Other insurance......................... 0
    Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 10 is this realistic - do you only spend this or do you do the 'sod it, stick it on the cc and worry about it in January trick'
    Haircuts................................ 20
    Entertainment........................... 20
    Holiday................................. 0
    Emergency fund.......................... 50
    Total monthly expenses.................. 2227


    Assets
    Cash.................................... 0
    House value (Gross)..................... 0
    Shares and bonds........................ 0
    Car(s).................................. 1000
    Other assets............................ 0
    Total Assets............................ 1000

    No Secured nor Hire Purchase Debts

    Unsecured Debts
    Description....................Debt......Monthly...APR
    Barclay Loan 1.................779.......81........19.9
    Barclays Loan 2................625.......72........19.9
    Tesco Credit Card .............600.......20........19.9
    RBS Credit Card................3600......0.........19.9 how much is this repayment?
    Lending stream ................754.......0.........200 and this?
    Pounds to pocket ..............450.......0.........200 and this?
    Payday UK......................130.......0.........200 and this?
    Wonga .........................1380......0.........200 and this?
    K and co Catalogue ............814.93....39........19.9
    K and co Catalogue ............3984.8....84........19.9
    Barclays Overdraft ............1120......0.........0 and this?
    Orange Credit Card ............1000......36........19.9
    Barclay Card ..................320.......16........19.9
    Total unsecured debts..........15557.73..348.......-


    Monthly Budget Summary
    Total monthly income.................... 2,400
    Expenses (including HP & secured debts). 2,227
    Available for debt repayments........... 173
    Monthly UNsecured debt repayments....... 348
    Amount short for making debt repayments. -175

    Personal Balance Sheet Summary
    Total assets (things you own)........... 1,000
    Total HP & Secured debt................. -0
    Total Unsecured debt.................... -15,557.73
    Net Assets.............................. -14,557.73

    Created using the SOA calculator at www.makesenseofcards.com.
    Reproduced on Moneysavingexpert with permission, using Firefox browser.
    This is my first reply to an soa - so fingers crossed that it's worked:) You need to work out exactly how much your monthly debt commitments are, i can understand that it's a daunting prospect but you need to know ALL the information before you can begin to move forward. Is there a way you can hammer down the pdl's? Cutting costs, Overtime, selling things, a credit union loan ? Sorry to be obvious but once they are gone you are going to be in a much better position to clear the other debts. Good luck with the future
    :xmastree::TDebt Free by Xmas '12 #100 5701/5701 100%:T :xmastree:

    :D2013 - OH's year to be debt free:D
  • :wave: Hi and well done on your LBM :)
    What others have said really, you seem to be missing a few figures.......
    DEBT FREE AND PROUD:D
    'Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt'
  • mawey
    mawey Posts: 91 Forumite
    Thanks for the help so far, need to have this soa sorted for Monday for my appointment with payplan

    [FONT=&quot]Benefits................................ 0 cb?[/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]My son comes over weekend my previous partner gets cb[/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Electricity............................. 80 high have you shopped around for a better deal? can you reduce usage?[/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Gas..................................... 80 as above[/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]I’m on a combined plan, the £160 per month was the payment plan they set up to get us back on track (fixed for12 months) [/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Satellite/Cable TV...................... 24 how much do you consider this a necessity?[/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Not a necessity, but in a contract with virgin media which is also fixed [/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Groceries etc. ......................... 350 can you reduce - are the budget s/markets an option for you[/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Will look into reducing this [/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Clothing................................ 150 this is an obvious area to reduce or are you planning ahead for school uniform[/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]We are going to reduce this, but the high amount is for the new school term [/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Other child related expenses............ 200 how essential are these? I know it's hard to cut back on children's activites, but are they value for money and does your child still enjoy them?[/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]For child maintenance to previous partner [/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Contents insurance...................... 25 can this be reduced - i pay this for buildings and contents and i've seen cheaper[/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Will look about thankyou [/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Life assurance ......................... 0 this maybe something to consider[/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]
    We currently get this free with work [/FONT]


    [FONT=&quot]Presents (birthday, christmas etc)...... 10 is this realistic - do you only spend this or do you do the 'sod it, stick it on the cc and worry about it in January trick'[/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Me and the wife have agreed to not buy each other things, just the little one gets this, not a lot but looking at it now may increase to 20 [/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Lending stream ................754.......0.........200 and this?[/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Pounds to pocket ..............450.......0.........200 and this?[/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Payday UK......................130.......0.........200 and this?[/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Wonga .........................1380......0.........200 and this?[/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]We have been paying the minimum payments, but we had to default this month as the got to high, know it’s my fault but we haven’t agreed on a repayment amount yet [/FONT]

    [FONT=&quot]Barclays Overdraft ............1120......0.........0 and this?[/FONT]
    [FONT=&quot]Interest free overdraft wages pay it off each month we had to use it a while back after an accident and not managed to pay it back yet.[/FONT]
    ~ LBM - July 2012 ~

    Debts: Barclays OD: £1120.00 | Barclays Loans: £1473.00 | Credit Cards:£5540.00 | Catalogues:£4800.00 | Payday Loans: £2715.00 | Family Loan: £5000.00
    Total Debts July 2012 £20,648.00 :eek:
  • nimbo
    nimbo Posts: 3,701 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    look at the oldstyle board for tips on the grocery budget they're all lovely over there, and can literally feed a familay (healthily) for 50p a day each.... the thread was weezls - i may have spel their mname wrong though...

    this was before inflation so maybe 60p a day now.

    you'll be able to pick up loads of tips on how to feed you, and i know that when i look at thir meal plans etc i eat so much better than i do otherwise.

    xxxxxxx

    Stashbuster - 2014 98/100 - 2015 175/200 - 2016 501 / 500 2017 - 200 / 500 2018 3 / 500
    :T:T
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