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Toomuchdebt

gettingitsorted wrote: »

HUGE HUGS to you Toomuchdebt,when did he drop this on you ?

Last Tuesday morning and then I ended up in hospital Tuesday night with complications after my op the week before.He came to visit me every day in
hospital.

immoral_angeluk

Aww you poor thing. Sending massive virtual hugs. How mean is he that he says something like that and then stays!!

bluezone

Hi there,

Sorry to hear your news. You dont have time to wait for him to 'decide' if is 100% in love with you or not, you have more pressing things to deal with. Although if he was to move out your outgoings would increase meaning you would not have to contribute as much towards the bankruptcy - sneaky I know but it would work in your favour.

Big hugs to you and tell hiim to buck his ideas up

Mike_St_Helens

Hi hun,

Me being a chap and all that Im probably not the best person to offer help. I know how you feel though... Yes men.. I hate them too !

Concentrate on YOURSELF and not him.

Mike x

savagevixen

Its probably just a load of b***ocks because you are having a rough time and a bit too much attention, so he is detracting it back.

Or maybe not. Sorry for your hard time
X

Richard_S

NekoZombie wrote: »

Hey Toomuchdebt. The same happened to me over the weekend so you're not alone, although I'm sure it feels like it. Its awlays a shock being told you're not wanted/needed. Keep your chin up, and try not to dwell on it too much. Argggh, men!

Hi Gals,

I have to say that I am frequently appalled by the behaviour of some guys; what I can't understand is why they don't just stick it out until you've got the worst behind you and if they still think the relationship won't work to make their intentions clear then. If they say it's over then for God's sake have the nerve to move out, draw a clear line under the relationship and do whatever they can to make the seperation as painless as possible.

I do have three daughters so maybe that makes me a little intolerant of some guys behaviour.

Bl***y lilly livered wimps

Richard

NekoZombie

Richard S,

good point and well made. I guess not everyone thinks clearly like you. What some don't realise is that relationships need work, and when things stop being rosy thats when they decide to scarper! Unbelieveable!